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Them: You better not be rewatching The Man Who Invented Christmas and shipping Dickens x John Forster.
Me:
Captain Marryat: 'Among the first in Dickens’s liking'
Marryat in 1841, the year he met Charles Dickens
Inevitably, when some lesser-known person is associated with Charles Dickens, that connection will be advertised as loudly as possible, since Dickens is one of the few 19th century writers and public figures who still enjoys widespread recognition in the English-speaking world. Such is the case with Frederick Marryat. A biographical blurb about Marryat will often bring up his friendship with Dickens before any of Marryat's own accomplishments are mentioned.
Despite their age difference —Marryat was 20 years older than Dickens— the two men were certainly friends. I have tried to puzzle out exactly how close they were with sometimes sketchy evidence (not helped by the fact that both men tried to burn or destroy large amounts of their correspondence.) I don’t know if the young Charles Dickens was keenly interested in meeting Captain Marryat; but Marryat was clearly aware of him. Dickens and Marryat didn’t meet each other in person until 1841, but Marryat recorded the wild popularity of Dickens’ first novel, The Pickwick Papers, as he traveled to America in 1837: “Dinner over; every body pulls out a number of ‘Pickwick’; every body talks and reads Pickwick; weather getting up squally; passengers not quite sure they won’t be seasick. [...] for many days afterwards, there were Pickwicks in plenty strewed all over the cabin, but passengers were very scarce.” (Diary in America)
I have quite made up my mind that Forster really believes he does know you personally, and has all his life. He talks to me about you with such gravity that I am afraid to grin, and feel it necessary to look quite serious. Sometimes he tells me things about you, doesn't ask me, you know, so that I am occasionally perplexed beyond all telling, and begin to think it was he, and not I, who went to America. It's the queerest thing in the world.
Charles Dickens to Cornelius Felton, December 31, 1842, in yet another update on the weird and completely incomprehensible crush that John Forster seemed to have had on him.
As this has been a pet project of mine for a few years now (though one I haven’t devoted too much in-depth research to), here are some other fun references to this gossip:
Charles Dickens to Cornelius Felton, May 21, 1842:
“Forster is my great friend, and writes at the bottom of all his letters- “My love to Felton”.”
John Forster to Henry Longfellow, January 3, 1843:
“How I envy you the intercourse with Felton! What a creature to love he is. How justly, and with what heart, he writes!”
My forever favorite:
Samuel Gridley Howe to Charles Sumner, August 2, 1843:
“Forster’s affection for Felton is becoming a sort of mania; he will certainly do something dreadful if he cannot gratify his longing to embrace him. I suspect he is remaining single in the hope of Felton’s becoming a widower that he may marry him.”
And when Felton becomes a widower, Henry offers Forster some... advice:
Henry Wadsworth Longfellow to John Forster, May 8, 1845:
“Did anyone write to you… to tell you of Felton’s great affliction- the death of his wife- or am I, today, the first bearer of evil tidings? She died about a fortnight since…. Felton is quite overcome by it, but bears his sorrow heroically. We are urging him strenuously to sail at once for Europe: but I am afraid he will not do it, as he finds difficulties in the way; though I for one can see none that are insurmountable. If you have time to write him by the next steamer you will console him and cheer him.”
The ongoing saga of the Boston Gang shipping John Forster and Cornelius Felton has reached downright ludicrous levels, and I still have no idea what to make of it.
We have Charles Dickens to Felton himself, in 1842: “Forster is my great friend, and writes at the bottom of all his letters- “My love to Felton”.”
We have John Forster to Henry Longfellow in 1843: “How I envy you the intercourse with Felton! What a creature to love he is. How justly, and with what heart, he writes!”
Aaaaand Sam Howe to Charles Sumner in 1843: “Forster’s affection for Felton is becoming a sort of mania; he will certainly do something dreadful if he cannot gratify his longing to embrace him. I suspect he is remaining single in the hope of Felton’s becoming a widower that he may marry him.”
Now in 1845 we have Henry Longfellow writing to Forster: Did anyone write to you... to tell you of Felton’s great affliction- the death of his wife- or am I, today, the first bearer of evil tidings? She died about a fortnight since.... Felton is quite overcome by it, but bears his sorrow heroically. We are urging him strenuously to sail at once for Europe: but I am afraid he will not do it, as he finds difficulties in the way; though I for one can see none that are insurmountable. If you have time to write him by the next steamer you will console him and cheer him.”
I know when Felton remarries not long after this, Longfellow and Sumner exchange some bitter words with each other about it, so updates will continue as research progresses.
I honestly can’t tell if Sumner, Howe, Dickens, and Longfellow are just taking the piss out of the both of them, but the fact remains that this whole thing reads like something out of a god damn fanfic.
Charles Dickens, to John Forster, on his.... issues... handling the marriage of Queen Victoria to Prince Albert.
London, 12th February 1840
I am utterly lost in misery, and can do nothing. I have been reading Oliver, Pickwick, and Nickleby to get my thoughts together for the new effort, but all in vain:
“My heart is at Windsor, My heart isn’t here; My heart is at Windsor, A following my dear.”
I saw the Responsibilities this morning, and burst into tears. The presence of my wife aggravates me. I loathe my parents. I detest my house. I begin to have thoughts of the Serpentine, of the Regent’s-canal, of the razors upstairs, of the chemist’s down the street, of poisoning myself at Mrs.-’s table, of hanging myself upon the pear tree in the garden, of abstaining from food and starving myself to death, of being bled for my cold and tearing off the bandage, of falling under the feet of cab-horses in the New-road, of murdering Chapman and Hall and becoming great in story (SHE must hear something of me then- perhaps sign the warrant: or is that a fable?), of turning Chartist, of heading some bloody assault upon the palace and saving Her by my single hand- of being anything but what I have been, and doing anything but what I have done.
Your distracted friend.
Charles Dickens.
(via (283) Entering Marion - YouTube)
Today’s song going through my head.
He is literally everything I ever wanted in a maaaan except that he's white and a cop and he's an alcoholic and has short hair and is named John and is from the 60s almost 70s!!!! <33
Why don't you go sing "Entering Marion" and maybe you'll calm down