November 1984. Both of our birthday month. Mine is the 8th and his is the 28th!
20 days apart, but light-years apart in the zodiac world! Nov 28 makes him a Sagittarius - the archer - known for being direct, creative, and adventurous, though sometimes prone to rushing. As a fire sign, they are typically optimistic, honest, and fun-loving, often seeking knowledge and freedom.
As a scorpio, I'm a water sign. So while we are both passionate, we are often at odds with our feelings and needs.
Here are some snippets from a book I bought on compatibility between astrological signs:
When a Scorpio woman and a Sagittarius man come together, sparks often fly… but so do questions! She is deep, intuitive, and emotionally intense; he is adventurous, blunt, and freedom-loving.
At first, the connection can feel magnetic, almost irresistible. Yet beneath the chemistry, there are real differences that cannot be ignored. Scorpio craves loyalty and depth, while Sagittarius seeks truth and wide open space. It can feel like “all or nothing” meets “let it breathe.”
Still, with awareness and maturity, this pairing can surprise you. Scorpio woman and Sagittarius man compatibility is a mix of passion, challenge, growth, and unexpected tenderness.
Honesty can heal or hurt
Sagittarius is blunt and speaks without filters. Scorpios are emotionally sensitive and do not forget harsh words easily.
A research paper published in 2023 states that when partners express and perceive honesty, relationships benefit through greater trust and satisfaction, even if their understanding of each other is not always completely accurate.
While truth matters in Scorpio woman and Sagittarius man love compatibility, delivery also matters. Honest conversations must be handled with care and emotional awareness.
Why it works for the couple: Clear and respectful honesty builds long-term trust.
so basically .. it doesn't think we are that compatible but if we really want it to work it can. Trust me, I will do anything to make this last. We have definitely had our misunderstandings but we always try to see it from the other person's side and always assume good intentions with each other and don't take things personally.
And if someone tells us we won't last ? You best believe both of us are gonna fight tooth and nail to prove those mfers wrong!!! We both scrappy 😂
Every day is perfect when he's with me 🥺❤️
Photo cred: Allison. Love her. She is so talented. This is my favorite pic of us.🥺🥺🥺❤️❤️❤️