From Joyce Pring's Podcast โค๏ธ
1. Escapist - the love of escaping problems. Escaping things cannot help you in the long run. This will never solve the underlying problems. Always process the emotions. Confront your problems and the people who are involved
2. Blame thrower- blame on other people, circumstances, not having any resources. What we can control is how we respond. You always have the option how you'll carry yourself, there's no reason to blame everybody. Do not pull the victim card a product if past hurts. But I'm also a product of choices I make. I can choose to be better and forgive, then I can lead a good life
3. The Broken Record- continuously bringing up the mistake of people just to drag them down. You have to let go of things if you want to grow. Forgive people but do not forget, by not bringing yourself in that situation again, nor feel it again.
But it's not easy to learn everything, we nay fail but taking step by step can help.
