How do you find the kind of girl a guy will be into in his natal chart?
7th House/Descendant - the type of people he attracts, what type of person would balance him, be a good partner for him, both platonically and romantically.
(For synastry, it’s great if your Ascendant or Sun is the same sign as their Descendant)
Juno - Shows the ideal long-term partner, spouse.
(Sun conjunct Juno - Juno person sees the Sun person as their ideal partner , Juno in the other person’s 4th House can be a great marriage aspect as it can show same values, similar plans regarding family)
Moon - The person that will emotionally fulfill him. This kind of confirms the idea that a guy looks for a woman like his mother. The Moon signifies the mother and nurture.
(great if her Sun conjuncts his Moon)
Venus/Mars - what kind of person he finds attractive. Both are for visuals, Mars is just more primal. Venus shows someone he will find romantically attractive, Mars - someone he’ll find sexually attractive, be protective over them.
(her Venus conjuncts his Mars, possibly considered the classic example of great romantic and sexual compability between a woman and a man)
(Ascendant/Sun conjunct his Venus, the classic crush aspect, liking someone romantically. Conjuncting Mars it can show sexual or more physical attraction)
(her Moon conjuncting his Mars, he’ll be very protective over her, an aspect that is regarded as the “babymaking” aspect. Strong sexual chemistry, the woman’s soft side and the man’s strength collide into one)
Pluto - In my opinion, a person’s Pluto is most triggered in square aspects. It brings out the true face of it. It shows obsession, your need for control, the person that triggers something deep inside you. They can bring out a side you didn’t know you have.
Sun,Moon,Venus conjunct Pluto. Sun-Pluto can show Pluto obsessing over the Sun, wanting to know more about them, kind of a stalker aspect. Ascendant-Pluto is similar. Moon-Pluto, wanting the Moon person to open up for you, never knowing enough about them, you want them to show you their vulnerability, you are protective over them. Venus-Pluto, a strong need for intensity, sexually Pluto always needs more, they may be like an addict in the relationship that never gets enough of Venus. Very strong, us-against-the-world type of love.
Now, if the Sun/Moon/Venus are square Pluto.
Sun or Ascendant square Pluto. A stalker-like obsessive aspect. Jealousy, envy coming from Pluto’s side. Moon square Pluto - Pluto never gets enough, they are never satisfied by the closeness, they need to explore the depth of the Moon person’s character, they want them to show their vulnerability and have control over it. Pluto loves the power they have over the Moon person and it can be terrible if they have bad intentions. Venus square Pluto - Chuck and Blair definitely had this aspect. Suprisingly, I think here both people have equal power. Venus wants attention, she may seek it from others, Pluto’s jealousy will be triggered. Venus will enjoy it, she will take it as a compliment. Pluto will want to overpower Venus, but they won’t be able to. There can be strong attracton, they will find it hard to move on from each other, even though the relationship may turn into a battlefield.
