i usually see this in friendships, or romantic relationships that start off as very close friends. there is a silent sense of understanding one another, an easy going aspect - but it can become triggering once the sun person's ego is hurt by the emotions of the moon, or vice versa
sun square sun, moon, mercury:
squares are usually seen as a negative aspect (hard aspect) but imo it is also very magnetizing, both parties are curious about the other, the differences between both parties create a sense of illusion, there may be a sense of idolization for the better or for the worse. however, once both individuals start getting closer the differences are even more emphasized.
sun opposite sun:
opposites are also a harsh aspect but i've only seen this play out in a harmonious way. sometimes there are insecurities but both sides either hide or ignore them. willing to compromise etc. i think there's also this feeling of showing eachother a different perspective which both parties appreciate - a yin yang type of energy
sun trine sun, mercury:
i love this aspect so much. can get boring if there is a saturn-sun aspect involved but otherwise there is a strong unspoken bond. might have very similar ideas and habits. feel connected to a certain level. mirror eachother easily. both platonic and romantic (although in romantic instances the attraction may not be at first sight, rather a slow burn)
sun semisextile sun:
my very very personal experience - never ends (or starts) well. i can never gauge out the other person's emotions or intentions. a lot of misunderstandings happen here. many one sided crushes too (for me, always from the other person, which i suspect is because my natal sun is semisextile my venus). one person tries to trigger some sort of reaction from the other, boundaries are crossed too. on the other hand, i've seen some people that are comfortable in this energy - ideas bounce off of eachother, a lot of humour and partying together. stupid decisions too lmao
sun semisextile mars:
this feels different compared to sun semisextile sun to me, i like this a lot more. the fiery energy is now concentrated between both passion and ego. i feel like this is the type where one person has a dream of the other and suddenly catches feelings yk. however, it is usually not spoken or addressed
sun conjunct mars:
instant attraction, even if the person is not your typical physical type lolll. there is just something about the way they carry themselves that inspires and attracts you. i've experienced this as both the sun and the mars person. (especially strong if you have a mars dominated chart) in other cases, both parties may try to dominate one another, strong sense of competition that may make some people feel uncomfortable.
sun in the 5th house:
strong attraction, but any planets in the 5th house usually signify a very short romance if there are no other supporting aspects. the sun person feels as though they are able to fully express themselves and be happy, the 5th house person is inspired by the other's expression and it heals their inner-child. but once the fun honeymoon-ish phase is over, other aspects are needed to support so it doesn't crash and burn. both parties might say white lies to keep it light and stop from ending
sun conjunct jupiter:
many philosophical conversations, it's easy to open up for the sun person, the jupiter person however may feel a bit wary of the other/intimidated. the jupiter person may feel like they have to put on a show or brag about things. this can then make the sun person feel inferior as well and slowly distance themselves. maybe more positive as a casual relationship or if both sides are emotionally evolved. communication is key here (esp if mercury or the moon is involved)
sun conjunct rising/ascendant:
recognition from the sun, they see themselves in the rising person. in turn, the rising person can feel special or appreciated. there is also potential for the sun person to feel offended and misinterpret the rising person. the rising's actions may feel like a personal attack on the sun, even if it isn't true. for example, silence from the rising can make the feel sun disliked or ignored on purpose. and criticism from the sun hurts the rising a lot
sun conjunct venus:
i've seen instances where both the venus and the sun have an admiration for eachother but it can fizzle out. the venus person may present themselves (fashion choices, lifestyle etc) in a way which the sun person relates to and finds appealing. the venus person finds beauty in the way the sun person acts and lives their life, but it doesn't always indicate compatibility, rather a very surface level attraction - love/admiration at first sight too
sun opposite neptune, uranus:
the neptune or uranus individual may cause a tower moment for the sun person, whether it be through uncovering lies or putting on a false persona themselves. the sun person may also feel "weird" or not accepted by the uranus person. with neptune there are many illusions and false promises (generational planet so i see this play out more so in social circles)
sun conjunct south node:
they feel instantly comfortable with one another, but the sun person may feel they are being silenced or pushed into the past. the south node may not see the full potential of the sun person and project their own ideas and fantasies onto them. in rare cases they may even use the sun person for their own benefit.
sun conjunct moon:
this depends on the maturity of both individuals. as the sun person, i often feel i can read the moon's emotions and i get overwhelmed easily so it's hard to communicate. nothing is hidden here - both are very aware of the other's emotions. it's easy to empathize with them. as the moon person, you may have a very motherly influence on the sun - either overly critical or view the sun as a extension of yourself
sun in the 7th house:
an opportunity to feel aligned with the other. there is a possibility of becoming very close and dependent on eachother. good for business and working together too. however, the 7th house is also the house of open enemies - the sun person may publicly talk badly and gossip about the 7th house person
sun conjunct pluto:
pluto is a generational planet so the influence may not always be evident unless it's a very tight orb - there can be an obsession. the pluto person can make the sun person act out in ways that aren't characteristic for them. pluto finds a lot of enjoyment out of watching them react. the sun enjoys the attention but it may end very badly. if the pluto turns on the person, they will obsess over the sun's weaknesses and try to bring them down
Disclaimer: These are just my observations. If they don't resonate with you, simply read and move on. Additionally, most of what I’m saying here is based on straight relationship patterns. That’s because, in my experience, certain planets and points (like Mars, Venus, Eros, etc.) tend to act a bit differently depending on whether they show up in charts for women or men. That being said, the astro tea can still apply across all kinds of dynamics—it just might look a little different depending on the people involved. Let's start then!
Juno-Moon conjunctions usually point to marriage. Doesn’t really matter if it’s the guy or the girl who has Juno. Even if the conjunction is up to 8 degrees apart, it still seems to count. Honestly, sometimes just having Juno and the Moon in the same sign is enough. I don’t get why some people insist it has to be under 5 degrees…
I also notice Lilith conjunctions show up a lot in long-term relationships. People have a hard time letting go of that Lilith person. But it needs to go both ways—if both people have Lilith connections with each other, it works. If only one person does, it usually turns into a one-sided obsession.
One more big thing for lasting relationships: positive Saturn aspects in synastry. Especially Venus-Saturn. Those can make things last way longer than you’d expect. But here’s the catch—if the Saturn aspects are only positive, it can start to feel like you’re stuck in the relationship. Like, even if it’s time to move on, it’s hard to let go. That’s why it’s actually better to have a mix of good and bad Saturn aspects. But yeah, more good than bad if you want to stay together and not lose your mind.
Chiron-Mars conjunction sucks—especially if the guy is the Mars person. You know how women usually expect the guy to take action or make moves? Yeah, well, when the woman’s Chiron is conjunct the guy’s Mars, his actions—or lack of action—tend to hurt her a lot. And when the guy gets angry, the woman will get hurt a lot by his actions/lack of actions during the fight. Great times.
Sun-Venus aspects in synastry are super important in relationships. It’s better if the aspect is a positive one. Also, progressed charts count too—but just for a limited time. Once the conjunction vibe fades, so does the magic. And in progressed synastry, keep the orb tight—3 degrees max. Here’s a an example: say your partner’s progressed Venus is conjunct your natal Sun. That means their taste, what they find beautiful, and what they’re drawn to... it all lines up with you. Like, you’re literally their type. In this dynamic, the Sun person (aka you, probably) kinda takes the lead, and Venus is like “yes king, shine your light.”
When Mars and Sun conjunct in synastry, it’s hot—but if the woman is the Mars person? It’s like she sees the guy and thinks, “Yes. Him.” And everyone else is like, “...Really?” lol She’s drawn to his core vibe, his essence.
Asteroids are often underrated when it comes to synastry, but honestly? Eros and Psyche aspects hit different. Especially when Eros is the guy and Psyche is the girl. It’s giving “the body finds its soul” energy. When these two connect in a positive way—like a sextile, trine, or even a conjunction—it creates this deep, almost spiritual bond. Personally, I’ve only experienced the sextile, and even that felt more meaningful than any of my other relationships. I can’t even imagine what the trine or conjunction would feel like. Couples who have these aspects are very lucky.
When Saturn and Moon connect in a positive way, it’s like emotional stability enters the chat. Saturn, the responsible one, steps in and says, “I got you,” and Moon believes it. Saturn brings that “I’m not going anywhere” energy, and the Moon loves that. This is seriously one of those aspects that helps a relationship stay solid when things get messy.
12th house Venus experience is interesting. It’s always like “Does that person like me or not?”. You cannot be sure about their true feelings towards you. Even when they try to show affection, it just creates more confusion. You’ll be sitting there like, “Okay… he brought me coffee… but does that mean he loves me? Or is he just polite? Or is this coffee a metaphor for rejection?” Lol That person can’t show you his love to you in a clear way. Either you just feel that they love you deep down… or you’ll never fully get it on a conscious level.
If you’ve got your South Node sitting in the 7th house and someone’s personal planets conjunct it… buckle up. That person is gonna feel like home, a soft hoodie for your soul. It’s so cozy and familiar. Letting go of them? Not happening. At least not in your mind. You might know it's not perfect or even healthy, but the connection hits that nostalgic part of your brain that makes you think, “They came back for me. Like we planned.”
That's it for today, guys! Hope you like it, see ya!
original idea is @sofstiltskin's piece right here, thank you for it, also your permission to do it in my own way as well!<3
Sun in Virgo in the 9th house
I think it's important to note that this virgo sun of mine is in conjunction with my midheaven & leo mars.
I would say it feels like my classical- traditional virgo traits ALL get wrapped around an everburning fireball - so some are just burned and disappeared, some are stayed but actively burning under the surface.
I made a mini list of (imo) classical virgo traits that kinda 'burned off' of me:
clean freak, shyness, prefers listening over talking, perfectionist, ocd vibes, being lowkey, disciplined, persistent, enduring, the constant feeling of not being good enough, wanting to be perfect, tryna hide & cover up imperfections, not having confidence, being insecure about my body, loving routines, working out, wanting to fix and help all the time, loving pets & kids, being naive, generous and selfless, falling for 'bad boys'.
Andd on the other hand the virgo traits that still going strong with me:
love for reading, mainly literature, books and libraries, smelling books♡, bisexual (more into men leaning tbh still;( ), loving and paying attention to details, clever, observative, picky, a homebody, dislike for loud noises & too much sensory things, having good gut feelings, also prone to belly aches:(, loving eating clean and don't like spicy things, work smarter not harder, making lists and categories, sorting things out, put things in order, having a fine taste, quality over quantity mindset, sarcasm & irony is my second mother language ngl, having a good sense of humour, naturally talented at everything, being generally kind and understanding, loving equality.
I do enjoy the strong sag energy that was given to me here, but sometimes i just wish i could have a little more chill. I've got way too much fire and way too less earth + water energy in my chart for calmly sitting on my a** lol
I also feel like i'm the best at everything i ever tried so after i'm done editing and watching my own videos, listening to my covers, reading my own poems, posts and looking at my moodboards, i find everyone else a little too simple or simply just not good enough. For ex. having trouble enjoying listening to other artists after i recorded and edited my own cover or the same with poems and videos.
10/8
Moon in Aries in the 5th house
One of my personal favorite placement of mine! Very creative, very childlike, very independent, very free, evermoving, forever curious, flirty and fun! Would bravely recommend it anyone lol*
*Maybe the only negative thing with this placement that i'm a little bit too egotistical? I love looking at myself in the mirror, and if i wouldn't found this not mentally stimulating enough, i fear i would do this many hours a day.
I also love to look at myself in videos on my own channel. Editing videos abt myself. Listening to my own cover songs and also raps. My own moodboards, my own things are my absolute favourite ones. My favourite voice, face, hair, body, style, art, yt channel is mine and mine and mine and mine.👑🏆✨
My bestie pointed out to the fact that i'm also really brave and special with telling men how i feel romantically. Like when i got a crush on someone, i have no problem telling them right there on the spot, also asking them out (yes, they are surprised, yes, they love it). I did this so naturally only minding my own business that I didn't even realize the fact that's still not the base for everyone lol. I literally needed someone (her, bless you mia♡) else to point out for that lol.
*Worth noting tho that most of the time the kind of guys i feel interested in, carry heavy cancer, pisces and libra placements. Maybe I can kinda feel in them even without looking at their chart, that if i take no steps they will never start anything themselves.
I have no experience how would this placement of mine would work out if i'd happen to have crushes on confident men whom love to initiate. (Not shaming anyone, gals... i literally told that they're my type of men. I only feel comfy if I, Me start anything and initiate and control, god bless the men who let me. - Also the others. I prefer equality. They are just not for my liking.)
I also do carry a strong 'birthing' energy sorry it came to my mind this way. But i don't like kids (i have my moon, ceres and lilith all conjunction in aries, opposing my venus so no kids for me, no never lol) so i have this mommy energy present with grown a** men (yes, they are surprised, yes, they love it), also i'm veryyy very creative so i bring new things 'new lives' to the world this way.
Another thing came to my mind... that i'm veryyy impatient. But there's this thing, i'm generally tend to be indecisive / taking a long time to make a decision because of the strong libra energy present in my chart, but once i decided - i want it that minute hurry up. I do not allow anyone to make decisions instead of me even tho i'm not the fastest, i always have and need all the control.
An absolute
10/10!
Ascendant in Scorpio
Since i've got a lot of scorpio energy and i'm not 14 anymore, i can say that it's not just the fact that i got used to it - i learnt a LOT about myself in the past few years (kickstarted the journey with astrology), and this was the point when i started to really use this energy well.
Yes, i had to learn it. That pluto 1h + saturn 8th didn't make it easier for me either.
Still, even though i see myself capable and also educated now in handling this energy well, there are days when it's still just too much, even for me. I'm too tired for it. Too sensitive. Too good person.
Yes, worth noting: looking at myself and my actions from the perspective of other people - i have no problem doing this - a lot of times i have to be the 'bad guy'. No, it doesn't make me happy seeing you hurt. Yes, i can feel it too, i'm an empath. Yes, you needed it. Yes, you'll see you needed it yourself but that time i'll be already gone like nanny mcphee in that movie. I've got a lot to do and i never stay.
It's hard on the heart of mine you'll never believe i have. Also makes me worn out not just emotionally, but literally physically. Even though i got so much fire energy in my chart i personally think i could easily operate a vulcano lol. Good thing i'll always rise like a phoenix all the time, afterall.
TMI I have very little water energy in my chart mind you... (Literally the only ones are my Scorpio Asc, Pisces Ic and Saturn 8th h) so i'm absolutely Not comfortable with handling water, it's too much and not enough at the same time.
The fire does give me energy to handle this asc (no, it's not just brings power, it uses power to work) but i feel the weight of it heavier because of the lack of water in my natal chart. I genuiely think there's no perfect recipe for this placement tho, it's really difficult to deal with and require a lot of precision and cold thinking to navigate with in life. (I'm sure my virgo sun is a good match for it tho.)
10/9
Mercury in Libra in the 10th house
Love it! Finally an easy, light but powerful placement! We Need that here chat.❣️ Very charming, clear, silky speaking- and singing voice, very good with words, "good to listen", i love everything art but the top tier is literature<3 Also not 'just others' art', i can vocalize and express my own emotions and thoughts really well myself (wattpad poet lol).
I'm naturally talented at learning foreign languages even tho i'm sure that my 9th stellium also plays a big role in this (and my sn+ pluto conjunction in sag 1h.) I also pay a huge attention to use my mother language, hungarian in the best way possible, both grammatically and aesthetically. (Ofc i'm not on the same level in english but i do try to do my best there too.:) )
I can also memorize quotes really well, also copying the tone and emotions it was said with. I was always everyone's favourite one and popular everywhere with that skill of mine.
Also I have the amazing ability to easily slide over questions i got but don't want to answer, neither loudly refuse it. So i just get ignorant about it, charm other things into the conversation to steal the attention off of it, and we're already done.*
*Didn't realize what i'm doing in my whole life, nor did anybody use the same 'technique' upon talking to me, Until i started talking with an another libra mercury - like this year, at 22yo. (We also have them in conjunction in our synastry.)
He did the same with me, i didn't recognize it for DAYS what was happening, and then when i did, it was literally like looking into a mirror. Did not like the realization, still happy that it happened, ya girl loves to learn afterall<3.
Also it's wildly random but i like to write notes on my wrist(!), hands, arms (sometimes my joints in general) - even though i always have my phone and paper + pen combo near me - and i find it interesting that libra represents skin and mercury is about communication and (written) words:)
10/10!
Venus in Libra in the 11th house
I think the virgo energy makes me being perfect in almost everything i try, But my libra venus is the one that gets me interested in them! Yeah, mainly art that i use for self- expression but not just them.
I'm really beautiful and i also like beautiful things & people. I wanna note tho, that because of my house placement here, i have my very own, quirky- unusual opinion on what's pretty and what's not mind you. For ex. i find most of runway models average or straight off ugly, and i had several crushes on ppl who were told that they are ugly & they also believed they are.
People with iconic big noses, weird- looking eyes & eyeshapes, unusual shaped / proportioned lips and face structure (or body- parts in general), birth marks, freckles, skin condition are my liked- appearanced people.:)
I look the Best on camera, photos and videos:) which comes handy if you make content about / with showing yourself, yep, also your face:) i would even dare to say i look better on screen than irl. (Speaking only about my looks, not the impact i have - of course it's much stronger irl than on the screen.:) )
And I LOVE gossip lol! But i ain't spreading fake rumours fyi, i just love spilling and drinking tea🍵!<3 Girlhood (no i also love tea with men lol. No but i actually - men with strong libra energy are loving it too, we tend to find and then vibe rlly well with each other...)
Furthermore, I can be surpirisingly surface- leveled in opposition of the high scorpio energy in my chart. I have several crushes and loves at the same time, i am polyromantic, and i do love with a light grip. Falling in and out of love quickly & easily. Also I'm not territorial at all. More like hedonistic.
10/10!
Mars in Leo in the 9th house
(Btw this is my dom + one of my ruling planet!❤️)
Y'all might think (hecc even i read this myself many times here) that this is a very sexual, very high libido placement - i'm gonna disappoint y'all. I'm asexual and also sapiosexual. So i don't even have to say that there's very few men who gets my attention also able to spice me up. But when i get interested, i'm all in.
Incoming sentences are not just about sexual ventures.
I'm curious, creative, confident, brave, loves to try new things - actually have a Need for trying out new things in constant. I lob lob LOB to kickstart 209 new things at once because i Need the feeling of being excited over stg, wanna know how it will feel during / will be at the end, the new experiences and memories, also the slight stress and the adrenaline rushing!❣️
I personally think my 9th house leo mars is the responsible one for the immense love and constant need for starting new things, and my aries 5th h moon is absolutely here for it + have all the capacity needed to do that lol. They be blending together so well here like pb cream + jam.
I also have a high dislike for time frames (i take control of things, not vica versa) and really just finishing projects i started lol (eyeing you @pinksobg rn👀 sorry. But i'll finish that collab pac it's too good to not finish it i'm on it i will!!!!)
Ngl y'all shall never know the number of my unfinished projects - that stemmed from such amazing ideas i'm crying - they'll be rotting in my drafts, phone notes and on irl paper forever🙏💔 rip but who cares we will start at least 2 new things tomorrow anyway
😂😂 TMI Ever since i was a kid (like around 9yo) i remember i phrased myself that if I don't finish a drawing in a week, i never will, which is so funny to me to this day. Nailed perfectly at such a gentle age of 9, still like 90% true to this day.:D
Btw i'm also very easy to anger up (~3 words) and i get mad in a sec. I stand up, yell and gesticulate very agressively on the spot. Have to hold myself back from physical violence but your honor i only want to slap men tbh.😇 Also very easy to me to forget about a lot of things when i'm mad. Other people around us, my goodgirl image (i have my eve asteroid conjuncts my sun😇 & black moon lilith conjucts my moon😈) and the fact that i could use this energy in a much better way, aka on the spot i do not care lol.
I know fashion is more venus topiced, but i personally think mars affects my makeup & clothing preferences (not my natural appearance!) the most. I prefer wearing menswear or boyish fits in clothes, mostly oversized pieces, rarely crop tops.
I LOVE love love to wear the colors black, white, grey, hot pink & animal prints!❣️But I really don't like pondering over what should i wear i literally just rip stg out from the closet, so my full wardrobe is packed with kinda this styled pieces.❣️
I go without makeup 80% of the time, and i also do not enjoy doing my & others' makeup. Nor looking at other ppl doing it like contents or irl. Nooo. Buuut if i do it i absolutely, physically CANNOT go with stg shy pastel sht lol that leo working hard here omg... My fav picks are purple lipstick (or bloodred), lip glosses & tints with chunks of glitter in it, bigg cat shaped eye lines, sparkly black eyepencil, cyclamen & sparkly orange eye shadow..
Annd i LOVE those rhinestones ppl put on their face on festivals. I wear it inside and around the house🤠 never went to a festival in my whole life and i have 3 packs from them here at home hehehe~
I have to say tho that i already attract eyes very much without wearing any makeup and such strong / vivid colours. And when it comes to attention, i get all kind - not just the ones with good intentions ofc.
Shortly things happened in the past that made me to be Very lowkey outside of the house. But I've always wondered if i would feel inclined to do my makeup more often & also go for more revealing clothing if i could've make sure i'll be safe (very possible imo).
10/9
I don't know @sofstiltskin, i really enjoyed doing this little self- review. Do you think we could make it into a tag game, with everyone freely participating who wants to? ♡
Btw pls pls tag me like i tagged you or stg, i'm nosy af lol bye- bye mwahh💋💋
Lilith conjunct Venus - Something about your relationship/love causes controversy. IRL ex: Age gap, relationship starts while one is married.
Uranus conjunct Venus - This can show unconventional relationships that may cause controversy as well. IRL ex: straight person dating bisexual trans man. This surprised the person's family and they were bullied/joked around about by friends.
Aquarius Moon - They can feel like outsiders. They can find it difficult to relate to other and others can find it difficult to relate to them. Some people hate what they can't understand.
Sun & Your Father:
Sun conjunct Saturn - Father or other authority figures may have high expectations. Father may be loving but reserved when it comes to showing it. Father may be demanding. Father may be a workaholic - or distant due to a diff reason. Desire to be a child again to go back to having the father's love.
Sun conjunct Mars - Father is assertive. Father may have anger issues. Father is action-orientated. Father is a powerful person. Father is a leader. Father is a fighter.
Sun conjunct Ketu - You’re detached from the father. Father is away during important times in your life - ex: Father is away during your birth. Father fails you in some way. Father is religious. If in the 3rd H, your father’s first marriage may have failed.
Sun conjunct Jupiter:
A positive outcome would be he is very supportive, very generous, a mentor to you. A negative outcome would be he is narcissistic, he is egotistical, he refuses to see things from other perspectives.
Jupiter’s influence on Sun expands the Sun’s traits. Possibly indicating your father may be “too much” of something. Depending your entire chart this will vary - ex: too demanding, too critical, too self obsessed, too indulgent, etc. It could be positive as well tho - very kind, very loving, very wealthy, etc.
EXAMPLE: Franz Kafka had Sun conjunct Jupiter. He had a complicated relationship with his father. The following is a quote written by him to his father:
“I would have been happy to have had you as a friend, as a boss, as an uncle, as a grandfather, even (although more hesitantly) as a father-in-law. But as a father you were too strong for me.”
“too strong” suggesting Franz may have felt his father to be an overwhelming presence in his life. Jupiter can expands Sun’s energy to the point that the placement becomes overbearing and a burden. If you have this placement lmk your experience & chart.
🍨 PEOPLE’S PERSONAL PLANETS IN YOUR 5H tell me if I’m wrong but, in my experience you can't stop smiling. They bring you joy and with just a look you start smiling (I guess this won’t happen if your 5H or the planets falling in you 5th are afflicted). I have some examples with two friends. With one, their Moon is falling in my 5th and with the other it’s Venus. One night, after meeting with some friends, we spend some time the three of us and literally we where kids laughing and making each other smile. Both of them produce me that feeling, but the second one in a more romantic way (even that I feel attracted by the Moon)
🍨 PEOPLE WITH SUN CONJUNCT YOUR ASCENDANT you look alike, and people can view similarities between you. For example, my friend follows an instagramer (christylevich) that has her Sun precisely conjunct my Ascendant. She always send me posts of her, telling me the resemblance. I also have this one with my sister -in a wider orb 2º-, same again. One more example could be my cousins Sun conjunct a friends of mine Ascendant. The other day I told her, WOW, you remind me of my cousin. And then I realize about the aspect. But in this case, my friend has her Mars conjunct my cousin Sun, and their suns are in opposition, so there's more added to it
I just noticed that all this examples happen in Virgo 🧐
🍨 SUN ASPECTING MARS I experienced this aspect several times, with hard and soft ones, and I can say that it’s SO attractive. The last example that made me want to write about this aspect was the trine. I have double whammy with tight orb with one of my work colleagues. In air (Libra-Aquarius) and earth (Virgo-Capricorn) signs. Apart from other good aspects that we share -trying to isolate this one- I would point out that we like how the other makes things. Since the beginning I was physically attracted to him. And he told me that he likes how I work. There is attraction. Although he shown me signs of that, the trine is more gentle than the hard aspects. With the square and opposition double whammy I noticed that the contrary can happen. It always depends on the natal chart of each individual and other aspects BUT, there is a feeling of “I don’t understand how you do things”. This happened to me with a flatmate. Even I accept her and she is nice, sometimes I have this feeling of, "why would you do that?"… (not proud of it)
🍨 URANUS ☌/△/✱ PERSONAL PLANETS LOVE-THESE-ASPECTS! Every person that I had this aspect with was amazing. Since the beginning I had 0 shame about being weird. In other words, I could be myself without restraining. But if I had to choose I would choose the SUN-URANUS as the best one. Being yourself is funny. There is no judgment between you. You feel alive and want to be with that person. It’s similar to the other aspects, but because there's different energies involved it subtly changes. With the VENUS-URANUS there’s that freedom-feeling that it’s comfortable, and in my experience, the Venus person will feel the attraction straight away
🍨 YOUR PLUTO ASPECTING THEIR INNER PLANETS/POINTS you can’t express this feeling with words. It's just something that happens with both of you. I have the VENUS-PLUTO double whammy—☌ to my Pluto and ✱ my Venus—with my best friend and it’s an aspect that creates glue. Is the level of deep understanding, there’s no secrets between you. Also, the conjunction is on the 4H, creating that level of openness to the private life. We also have MOON ☌ PLUTO and IC, again producing a deep level of emotional support and trust. On the other side Pluto negatively aspecting your inner planets/points, can be manipulating, but that’s another story, long enough to make a new post. What I can say is that it always depends on the maturity of the Pluto person, and how this planet is aspected in their natal chart. I always found Venus-Pluto aspects in the natal chart as a softener of that “toxic” intensity
Hope u liked it! :) And as always, I love to hear from your experience, so we both learn. Let your comment if you have something to share <3
This Sun in Capricorn brings clarity to our decision-making, and Mars here gets us moving. Notes on possible manifestations. Not at all exhaustive.
Capricorn rising / 1H - you experience a surge of energy or a renewed will to live; joie de vivre; you overcome a hardship through effort and endurance; you take the lead on your family’s future; you become a head of household; you captivate a passerby
Aquarius rising / 12H - you make significant progress grinding behind the scenes; you finally understand the hidden vices of a male in your life; you fight off the urge to overindulge; you overcome self-sabotage; you have a dream or epiphany that helps you resolve an inner conflict; you stand up for the underdog; a sibling or neighbor stands up and fights for you when you’re not around
Pisces rising / 11H - a bold move garners the attention of your friend group or network; a power play gets you more money; you accept offers of mentorship/assistance from a male; you remove an obstacle to your future; you resolve a conflict with a friend or cut out a toxic friendship
Aries rising / 10H - your status is elevated by a personal achievement; you’re rewarded for taking initiative at work; you receive a pleasant surprise; you relinquish a part of your image that is no longer aligned; you stop trying to fit in; you show your authentic self, unapologetically
Taurus rising / 9H - you realize you’ve met a soul mate; you find a deep spiritual connection; you receive powerful insights from meditation; dreams carry profound messages; you attract a secretive male or foreigner; a foreign concept or idea suddenly clicks;
Gemini rising / 8H - you get a solid plan to tackle debt; you learn about a new tax break; the heat in your relationship turns up; you handle a crisis with precision; you get surprise money from rendered services to put towards a future goal; you crack a code at work that gets you more money
Cancer rising / 7H - you and your partner get creative in the bedroom; you and a partner make significant progress on a creative project; energy put towards a relationship is personally rewarding; an argument brings clarity; you forge a new professional partnership
Leo rising / 6H - you get organized; you and coworkers get the job done perfectly; your work takes on a higher quality; you start a sustainable workout plan you can do from home; you find motivation to start a healthier lifestyle; you start a fun, harmless affair with a coworker; you find the right advocate to fight for you at work
Virgo rising / 5H - sexual breakthrough; creative breakthrough; you have a surge of creative energy; you gain clarity on the topic of children; you witness part of yourself through your child; you experience a performance or work of art that moves you and are forever changed; you’re learning something creative
Libra rising / 4H - you gain clarity on a conflict within the home, especially around money (this could mean clearing a money block from childhood); you & a partner move in together; your partner takes initiative and saves you time or money; home improvements/renovations begin; you start a family game night; you heal your inner child; you lay an old family conflict to rest
Scorpio rising / 3H - you enjoy being out and about in your surroundings; you start a new activity, such as jogging around your neighborhood that helps you alleviate stress; you realize key information about yourself and how you think/communicate; you feel livelier and more stimulated in conversations; you find the courage to initiate a meaningful conversation regarding the future
Sagittarius / 2H - you get clear on money matters; you take control of your finances; you refine your budget; you realize a shift in your values through your new hobbies; you’re driven to earn money for your future and take new action; you cut excess in your spending and eating habits; you become very aware of what you’re consuming
How the different afflicted Sun configurations can manifest as difficulties with a father figure: Sun - Mars
Note: Only applicable for Vedic Astrology
The father's authoritative nature seem to precede the norm, because both Sun and Mars are pitta (fire), there is an indication that the father / father figure had an overwhelming amount of control within the household.
At a neutral sense, this could simply indicate that the father figure was someone who insisted that he was to dictate every decision within the household, but on the extreme end, this can indicate the father figure was abusive and used his power not only to control, but to also strategically hurt family members.
For men / or those who identify as masculine who have this in their chart:
A possible angle, is the father figure was purposely inclined to have difficulties with the other males of the family, as Sun - Mars can indicate that the father's masculinity is exacerbated (due to the combined fire of Sun - Mars on his personality), and he is filled with heat, and therefore find that other male figures within the family as threats to his control.
This can result as demeaning behavior on other men / masculine figures in the family, and at worst can even mean there is a semblance of physical abuse that takes places as attempts to control the men / masculine family members.
One of the worst ways this can manifest for the male / masculine chart bearer, is that they become mirrors of their fathers' upbringing, which can also contribute to a tendency of using someone's vulnerability to achieve egoic (Sun) means, or being someone who uses their physical prowess (Mars) to harm others.
The grief of the father figure's inability to nurture them could lead them down to the path of violence, either through a sense of internal turbulence and self-hatred, or hurting others.
For women / or those who identify as feminine who have this in their chart:
This is a possible configuration for someone whose father figure can seem misogynist, one who despises women (as women are classically indicated by Yin), while the combination of Sun - Mars means that there is an exaggerated sense of Yang within the father figure's nature.
This can mean the father figure has difficulty relating to women, and feel the need to project his sense of authority on how a woman should act on his family members. The women / feminine who have this could have experienced a sense of disconnect with their father, feeling as though their gender identity got into the way of connecting with him. They could never feel fully vulnerable to be themselves, perhaps even overcompensating by attempting to embody what the father figure expects a woman / feminine should act.
The Sun - Mars for the women / feminine chart bearer means they're in a relentless mode of defensiveness, and because of this they can have difficulties connecting with males (embodiments of Yang) due to their own father figure instilling a cautious nature in them. As this father figure was not someone they felt they could depend on, this distrust and paranoia bleeds out towards their interactions with men. They may view men as threats to their independence (Sun), as well as their drive or ambitions (Mars).
Chart aspects for confirmation:
(Applicable for D1, D9, and D60 charts)
Chandra Lagna Technique
- Sun - Mars is 4th / 4 houses away from Moon
- Sun - Mars 4th / 4 houses away from Moon in Aries / Moon in Scorpio, OR Sun - Mars 4th / 4 houses away from Moon in Leo
- Moon in Aries / Scorpio with Sun - Mars 8th / 8 houses away from Moon, OR Moon in Leo with Sun - Mars 8th / 8 houses away from Moon
8th house connection
- 4H in Aries or Scorpio with Sun - Mars in the 8H, OR 4H in Aries or Scorpio with Mars 8H opposite Sun 2H
- 4H in Leo with Sun - Mars in 8H, OR 4H in Leo with Sun 8H opposite Mars 2H
4th house connection
- Sun - Mars is placed in the 4H , OR the lord of the 4H is Leo or Aries / Scorpio with Sun - Mars
- lord of Sun - Mars is 4th / 4 houses away from Sun - Mars
- 4H is in Aries / Scorpio sign with Mars in the 9th house opposite Sun in 3H, OR 4H is in Leo sign with Sun in the 9th house opposite Mars in 3H
- Moon in Aries / Moon in Scorpio in connection with 4H + Sun conjunct Mars, OR Moon in Leo in connection with 4H + Sun conjunct Mars
- Sun in 4H opposite Mars in 10H, or Mars in 4H opposite Sun in 10H
9th house connection
- 9H linked to Sun - Mars, either by the 9H lord being Sun - Mars (meaning 9H could be in Aries / Scorpio or Leo sign), OR the lord of Sun - Mars is in 9H
- Mars is in 9H with Sun in 3H opposing Mars, OR Sun is in 9H with Mars in 3H opposing Sun
Rahu and Ketu connection
- Sun opposite Mars conjunct Rahu
- Sun Rahu opposite Mars
- Sun conjunct Mars conjunct Rahu
- Sun conjunct Rahu conjunct Mars
- Sun opposite Mars conjunct Ketu
- Sun conjunct Ketu opposite Mars
- Sun conjunct Mars conjunct Ketu
- Sun conjunct Ketu conjunct Mars
Under construction: This is an ongoing series of posts, and more will be added under this topic.
