#kachulein

[k-rising]

I'm a 7th house stellium and I honestly don't know whether it's a blessing or a curse💀

I feel like I mirror other people to the point that everyone I talk to gets to see a bit of a different version of me that is accommodated to their specific needs and sometimes I wonder what exactly the real me is,, (I guess the one that I "show" when I'm by myself idk). I also cannot live without love - my Pisces venus just making this worse here. Although I distanced myself from dating and love in real life, in my head I've always been in an imaginary relationship with the version of an idol/youtuber/celebrity that I created in my head. It's like half of my days are spent daydreaming about this person and making up romantic scenarios, meanwhile I suppress my loneliness and need for actual love so deeply that I can even fool myself into feeling like I'm totally fine staying single for the rest of my life. I just feel like there's such a huge emphasis on love and partnerships in my life - although it doesn't even have to be romantic relationships. I also deeply identify with the friendships I have and getting into an argument with a friend is so earth-shattering to me that I am unable to function and continue my daily life until that argument is settled. And I guess that's why I'm scared of conflicts and tend to be a people pleaser - fights among friends affect my sensitive soul so deeply that I need to avoid it at all costs. But I definitely feel like there's also love/hate themes going on and sometimes life just feels like a rollercoaster of emotions. 😅

However, I do feel like this stellium makes me a hopeless romantic and I love being in love and I also think that I'd make a sweet and supportive partner. This whole "mirroring" people thing goes really deep for me and I feel like I have the ability to relate to and understand other people really well (I have been told that I understand a friend in a way they had never felt understood before). So, I do love how much insight into other people this stellium gives me and the focus on relationships also makes me put a lot of effort into the people I hold dear.🥺

damn... it really is both a curse and a blessing! i'm actually more familiar with the 7h stellium since one of my closets friends have it and yeah, what you have described was exactly the way as I observed haha

omg, same about daydreaming about idols! part of me likes it but other part of me hates it bc i can't believe I haven't had a real crush for like 2/3 years :(

love me some hopeless romantic people <3 you're so cute ahhhh

[littlefallenrebel]

Ahhh I feel that!! Amethyst and Aquamarine also belong to my faves! Lapis Lazuli is so pretty too!! I also like Labradorite and Opal🤧 but the black Obsidian and Onyx are so nice, as well!!🤧 So yeah, I feel that, way too many pretty stones :')

But also, I gotta show you something👀

my mom got me this amethyst and clear quartz necklace at a medieval market and I love it so much😭🤧

AAAA that's so pretty 🤧😭💖💖 I need

so many pretty stones so little money to get pretty stones 😔🙌

[marculees]

Your tags are so true! After writing it I also thought that the same applies to wealthy people as well. Money can't buy happiness - it's even statistically proven - yet people don't "allow" wealthy people to struggle with their mental health. First and foremost they're human beings and they can feel just as lonely, depressed, anxious, insecure, etc. as each one of us. I feel like being sick (in general) always has some type of "visual" to it and if the person who's struggling doesn't look "sick" or doesn't look like they're struggling, others aren't going to take them seriously... and like you said, by the time people start to care, it might already be too late... 😔

Yeah, I don't know what else to add because I think you've summed it up well! Its just hypocritical for people to tell others that their feelings are invalid but then preach about how we should listen and take mental health more seriously. Its because of attitudes like that, that people learn to mask their feelings because god forbid they're 'having a bad day'

[jacksvnshine]

omg btw I got a question👀 one of my astro friends asked me if something in her chart hints towards her attracting older men to her and I asked her about her 5th & 7th but also thought it could be her Capricorn Mars?? I kinda see Mars as a dominant force in who we attract (could that be right?). Otherwise she's got a Scorpio sun/moon, Libra rising, Virgo venus and her 5th in is Pisces and her 7th in Aries. I wasn't fully sure about it, so I'm wondering what your opinion is~🥺❤

Capricorn/Saturn are related to the father and people relay it back to daddy issues and attracting/attracted to older men sooo maybe...👀😂 But 7th in Aries also attracts people who like to take charge, which might be seen in relationships with age gaps, with the older person usually being the more dominant😅 Keep in mind that we don’t always like the sign/traits of our 7th house ‘partner’ - idk if she’s happy with that attention or??😂

[vallkyr]

If you get this, answer with 3 random facts about yourself (only if you feel like it!! 💕) and send it to the last 7 blogs in your notifications, anonymously or not! Let's get to know the person behind the blog 🌻

I do feel like it! 💕 I’ll try to pick facts I haven’t mentioned yet^^

I’m currently reading the Percy Jackson series with my best friend and a twitter mutual and finally understand my best friend’s issues with the movies.

With birthdays I’m either like “[person]’s birthday is in four months, I should start to think of a gift” or “Oh fuck their birthday is in two days WHAT DO IT DO?!” or both but no in between.

I watch a German soap opera with my mom. It’s trash, there’s inconsistency everywhere, we know the style well enough to make fairly accurate predictions at times. But does that mean we stop watching? No. We’ve been in this shit for a bit over 11 years by now, the only thing that can stop us is the show getting cancelled.

Hope you like the facts, I had no idea what to write xD

[nightshade-minho]

OMG THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR FOLLOWING MY BLOGS I'M LITERALLY SCREAMING RIGHT NOW ILYYY😭😭😭♥️

ABHABABSS NO I- MATE YOU TURNED ME INTO MUSH AND >.<

[thrillridesz]

Congrats on 1.4k followers luv!!🥺💞💖💜💖💞💜 I know how it sucks to see the number go down and how it might trigger thoughts of "did I do something wrong" etc. but I'm sure you'll get n times as many followers as those two you've lost in no time🥺👉🏻👈🏻💖💜💞

thank you kachu!!! it does but honestly, i've learned not to care about it ^^ what matters is those who do still follow me and are still supporting what i do haha i don't really have time for the others but thank you so much for saying that!! 💓💓💓

[marculees]

3, 9, 22 for the voice asks🥺❤

Hi Laura, thanks for asking!  ❤️ Tumblr just won’t let me upload videos anymore today so I’ve resorted to Youtube for questions 3 and 22 so I hope the links work! I’ll try reblog photos of the outfits I’m describing and pleeeeease don’t judge me for being so MUSHY with my daydreams and ‘singing’ for question 22...😂 WATCH ME GET COPYRIGHT STRIKED EVEN THOUGH ITS UNLISTED TOO 🤡