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kargoroc replied to your post: We’re bunkered and safe, but…. shit’s starting to...

Oh shit that’s scary! We’re not expected to get too much up here in Orlando…

I’m actually local to the Orlando area as well (hunkering in Maitland), but reports of it are still coming in. You know about the curfew coming into effect, yeah?

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@kargoroc replied to your post: apparently mtn dew white label is basically...

It tasted like drinking tropical Skittles to me

i wouldn’t know i haven’t had skittles in forever lol 

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@kargoroc replied to your post: [[MOR] things that don’t help when someone...

Thank you for posting this. My SO and I both apologize “too much”, and while he’s very patient with me I can sometimes be very impatient with him and the occasional reminder is so important!

tbh i am always saying ‘it’s okay it’s not your fault but thank you’ when people apologize to me for things that could never be their fault. And people also need to remember there is a difference between a sympathetic ‘i’m sorry’ and a conditioned response versus the legitimate needed apology. 

I’ve apologized for shit i never could’ve done at least twice as much as apologizing out of sympathy or out of legit fault on my part.

and it is actually helpful to tell people with traumatic pasts that are the cause for their ‘compulsive apologizing’ that it isn’t their fault but it’s ok to apologize anyways. that you aren’t upset with them. Because usually we automatically assume we’ve irritated people with our apologizing. And it ends up being a loop of apologizing for apologizing for apologizing. 

and it’s actually helped me apologize less as I gain more support and understanding for my compulsive apologizing and start shedding what was conditioned. 

we should not have to feel like we need to apologize just for having an original fucking thought, which is what i most often apologize for. Or I apologize for being upset. Because I had to. because otherwise my life would be hell if i didn’t apologize for being upset.

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@kargoroc replied to your post:I caught a poliwag and a charmander in my house is...

Was it raining? Sometimes water pokemon are more common when it’s raining outside

I think we’re actually in the middle of a stretch of no-rain? 

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kargoroc replied to your photoset:I found some rocks. Can anyone identify them?

Top right looks like amethyst, lower left looks like either quartz or rose quartz. Top left and middle right don’t look like anything in particular to me, not sure about the other two.

Thank you! I got these rocks about 6 years ago in some kind of gem museum. We got to dig around in some dirt and “uncover” and keep these rocks. I doubt any of them are particularly valuable.