#karkittyasks

[icecream-sungae]

Pear :)

Pear: Where do you like to shop?

Umm well I do a whole lot of online shopping and order things off of amazon, Forever21, and jewelry from bodycandy.com. But other than that I like the clothes from Hot Topic, Kohls, J.C. Pennys, and sometimes the Forever21 store. 

Thank you very much for asking !! ^_^

[icecream-sungae]

You're so fantastic! I hope you have a fantastic day!

Awe thank you!

I hope your day is fantastic as well, anon~!

[icecream-sungae]

4 & 13 for the ask thing heheh

4. The best thing that has happened to me this week

Well it’s only monday so technically the week has just started but if I was to base this off of last week then I’d say that’d probably be getting this big envelope from the university im attending next year which basically contained more information on how to proceed with dorm registration and orientation dates and another letter congratulating me on my acceptance into the school… I dunno it just made me feel all warm and fuzzy inside for a little bit before returning to watching netflix, haha

13. One person from tumblr I’d throw off a cliff, one I’d marry and One I’d fuck

excluding this chick that really can’t stand me and who would probably want me thrown into a volcano, I’d probably have to say this really annoying anon that bothers my friend kelsey all the time and makes her upset because gosh she really doesn’t deserve it and it really misses me off. As for who I’d marry my default answer would be manbehindtheshades because I mean generally you’d marry your fiance amirite? But since he is also my answer for who I’d fuck because like doing the do is icky if it isn’t with the right person then I’ll marry kanaya-maryammm-or-fmmm instead because Arin is my fav boyfriend tbh ^w^

[icecream-sungae]

you should def tell the person! even if they get upset its important to communicate stuff

Very true but I mean I am already needy enough and I ask a lot of them as it is I really just dont wanna be even more of a bother..

[icecream-sungae]

i saw u talking about gender stuff awhile back and i was wondering how you brought it up with your boyfriend. ive been really confused genderwise recently and i wanted to know if you had advice on how to approach ppl about it

Well, we were talking on the phone one night and just kind of telling each other about our days like we usually do and we were talking about my hair since i had just dyed it and it wasnt feeling too healthy (the bleaching kinda killed it). I mentioned wanting to just cut it off because it was so dead now and just generally unhappy amd he said i should. To that i replied “maybe a pixie cut.. Or something more gender neutral.. ” he was quiet for a moment before asking what i meant and i explained to him that for a few years now ive felt really weird and kind of like a reject because i dont always feel feminine and some days i see myself completely as a dude and that on those days having female genitalia literally makes me sick to my stomach and i hate myself for being physically female. He was still a bit confused but asked if id want to be permanently male and i said no because there are also the days that i see myself as so feminine its not even funny. After explaining that he began to understand and i made it clear that it isnt just a phase and its not because i spend so much time on here or anything in fact before dedicated my life to tumblr i didnt know genderfluidity was a thing but the more i look into it the more and more it makes sense to me. Now tanner is completely supportive of it and every morning he asks what pronouns id prefer. We even decided that on my feminine days id be called lily and on masculine days hed call me Gabriel. Since we had this discussion i feel like our relationship has become even stronger because i know no matter what i throw at him he’ll accept me for it. Other than him, the only people ive told is friends and i just told them straight out and explained what genderfluidity is and theyve been nothing but supportive. But honestly, i havent quite figured out how to tell my family and im not even sure if i will since im leaving for college next year. But if they catch on themselves then i guess that would be good. The best advice i can give you is to just be comfortable with who you are and when youre ready to come out to people just do it. If they dont want to accept you for who you are then that sucks for them because im sure youre p great and itd be their loss. I hope this helped, even if just a little bit!

[icecream-sungae]

im fine but i have to apologize because im not going to be sending messages anymore. i hope i was able to make this week or so better for you

glad to hear it, and its okay. you've made this one of my better weeks and for that i really must thank you.

[icecream-sungae]

hello! how are you today?

Today actually wasn't that good, haha.

Had to sit in on the senior awards ceremony and I was surrounded by people with always makes me really anxious. 

But hey, i came home and took a nap so everything is okay now haha

How are you??

[icecream-sungae]

im okay, i got some anon hate today but thats nothing too hard to handle

well shit im sorry :(

you seem like a p great person you definitely dont deserve any anon hate