#gender things

[siriusthesleepy]

I use she/they pronouns and I usually don’t mind either, but it’s so pissing off when some people really emphasize the she/her pronouns as a way to ‘correct’ me.

[marshmall0w-d3ath]

Sometimes I wish I chose a more masculine name. I almost changed my name a few times throughout my early transition. I thought about being a Scott, a Davey, a Jonas. I feel like those are all me well enough, but unfortunately I was not surrounded by kind and supportive ppl (not even in a transphobic way, more like a mean judgmental way), and so anytime I brought it up I was always shut down. But my chosen name is very me, and the fact it’s unisex honestly can be a lifesaver sometimes. I’m at a point in my transition I come across as androgynous and can use it to my advantage to present myself how I want or need to. It gives me leeway. And the story behind why I chose it is cute :] but sometimes the vagueness of it is rly annoying and dysphoria-inducing

[marshmall0w-d3ath]

I feel like in a perfect world I could’ve proudly been both a boy and a girl, especially publicly. I’m having a lot of gender feelings I can’t articulate

[worrynoodle]

I need to break into his house and find the genie lamp he used to get his gender

[sapphicseymour]

im agender so womanhood to me is a bit like putting on a cosplay for funsies, and other times im like im not in cosplay rn but i still receive sexism and move thru the world like what i've learned is expected of me and it's weird. i would have loved to play football today w the men by the outdoor pool but 1. i'm introverted and skittish around groups and 2. i didn't want any of them to think i was in any way interested in them romantically/sexually but that's the heteronormativity of it all

[glowingstardust]

the gender euphoria of having bruses from a fight

[dolli-bunni]

Dear Dykes, 15.06.26 Last night I went out to a party in boy-mode and someone assumed I was the host's brother!!! Yipee.It was the first time anyone has EVER been confused about my gender. It made me so happy, usually I'm immediately clocked as "a girl" or even worse a "lovely young lady" (*gags*). As a genderqueer femme I am rarely recognised as anything other than "a girl" and although I do love being feminine it can be quite frustrating sometimes. Particularly when I'm having a weird gender day and my feminine body is making me uncomfortable. I was wearing a makeshift binder so I think that helped, I would really love to get a proper one someday. -oxoxo Bunnii

[turtleduck-in-mordor]

the average boy is so much calmer than i would be if i were a boy. if i were a boy my mind would be lost to the bliss and ecstasy of my y chromosome. and yet this is not behavior i see exhibited by boys very often.