Katyahina Public Warning Post
wow talk about a very topical very not 10 months late post we have here anyways i’m here to warn my followers (and the kirby tag too i guess since she posted a lot in there) about katyahina aka r1nrina on deviantart (EDIT 2/18/19) and now recently katyahina on ao3 (EDIT 2/21/19) hnkshrine as well (EDIT 4/26/19) she has returned to kirby rping/askblogging at littlerainbowlover
i’ve held off so long on this post i guess out of mercy or something. i’ve had my finger on the trigger just ready to pull. i’ve been suggested to make this post by one of my other friends whom will go unnamed.
i’ve heard katy’s made her own post outing herself? okay i guess. (EDIT 2/21/19) she has deleted said post. i did not think to take a screencap of it at the time it was up, but it was up according to my friends who looked through her blog for it
i’ve talked about her a bit on this blog but very sparingly, and honestly after a discussion with one of my friends i realized that staying quiet about her has injured me slightly and has a chance to injure others as well
anyways if you don’t know from following me or not following me katyahina put me through a nice bit of emotional hell during the time i was ‘friends’ with her, aka me being her emotional therapist every time she lashed out at me lol. it was a cycle of abuse which kept me in through use of gifts and fanart, as well as guilt because of all the other things that had happened in her life made me take pity on her. which, the things that happened in her life aren’t her fault but the fact that she dumped it all very willingly onto me, without consideration of how i’d feel about hearing such distressing events, is.
you can see all that goodness here, in a nice organized sta.sh i made basically the very same day i cut her off! three hundred or so screenshots, it’s a fun time.
(EDIT 3/28/19) this is not the first time she’s done this to someone. i was contacted today by an anonymous source who gave me some posts of people who’ve dealt with this exact situation before.
2014 (op ended up leaving her social medias for good, it was the only way for her to make katy leave her alone)
2016 (sassysquancher made a sort of master post as well, but later they had to delete or hide it for some reason)
she’d admitted to me that she had abused people in the past and i should’ve taken that at face value and ran, but i gave her the benefit of the doubt.
katy has vocally said she has bpd (borderline, not bipolar) and from what i heard, after i cut off ties with her, is now going to therapy for it. good for her, i dont really give a shit nor will i ever forgive her but i can appreciate that she’s at least making like 1 effort to make sure what she did to me wont happen to other people.
i also appreciate that she’s supposedly ‘off tumblr’ or something i dont really know i don’t keep up with her because i would not like to mentally torment myself by even going onto her blog lmao, even just grabbing her url made me mad just think about what going onto her blog would do
(EDIT 2/21/19) nevermind, she’s back on tumblr and she’s getting welcomes back and what not. call me mad but man i’m mad lol
this post isn’t ‘uwu boogieman’ i’m just saying this is what katy has done to me. it’s been 10 months since she’s done it. i’d like you, whoever is reading this, to make a valued judgement by yourself on your opinion about this. if you believe that she is worth interacting with after reading this post then go ahead, i just ask to proceed with caution if you want to befriend her.
if not then. do not, under any circumstance;
send death threats to her
interact with her period if you do not like her after this post
interact with her / become friends with her just to guilt her
i hate katy with all my heart trust me but i’m going to be the bigger person here and say do not do that shit.
just quietly block, don’t even bother talking to her.
i’ve heard that some people will interact with her, find out she did what she did, then block her.
so, here, lets save her and you the trouble by addressing it directly and outright.