Hi lovely, I've got a somewhat random question for you. In your six selfies (you're adorable as an aside) you're wearing a stunning corset (underbust I think?) in one of them and I was wondering if you had any advice for someone looking at buying one? I've got a few friends who have them so I know some basics, but any advice you have would be fantastic!
Aw, thank you! Okay, the best place for more detailed stuff and product reviews is Lucy’s Corsetry (she has a website, a Youtube, and a Tumblr), but for basic stuff:
I own a Timeless Trends corset and an Orchard Corset corset (the latter is the purple one in the pictures). Off-the-rack corsets are cheaper (still prohibitively expensive, though) and easier to buy, but they’re not really made for you. On the other hand, bespoke (made to fit you) is extremely expensive, like hundreds of dollars. I won the TT one in a giveaway and the OC one was after several (like, they added up to almost 50% off) markdowns. I don’t buy corsets unless I’ve bought them at the lowest possible bargain, and it’s still an expensive hobby.
Don’t buy from Ebay, don’t buy from Amazon, don’t buy from Corset Story or any of its branches, don’t buy from anywhere that isn’t a reputable brand.
You’ll want to take your measurements. The most important measurements are your waist (obviously), your hips, your underbust, and the distance from your underbust to your lap while sitting down. Depending on where you’re buying, they’ll tell you how to take those measurements and if you need others.
I have a long (>10 inches) torso and wide hips compared to my waist (roughly an 8 to 10 inch difference naturally, depending on if I’ve gained weight around the middle recently). So my ideal corset is a longline corset, with a “dramatic” silhouette and a wide hip spring. One day I might get this gorgeous thing and actually be able to close in the back. Other people have different measurements, so you’ll want to find the right corset for you, not what looks nicest on the model.
Wearing a corset should never be painful or make it horribly difficult to breathe, but it’s not exactly easy. For one thing, wearing a corset tightly works on your stomach kind of like a lap band does: it makes your stomach smaller, so you feel fuller faster. You can bend your knees, but you can’t bend at the waist, so you have to do this sinking-gracefully-to-the-floor thing to pick things up. And put your shoes on before you put your corset on, unless you want to try new and inventive yoga maneuvers to tie them.
On the other hand, you start sitting very straight with excellent posture with very little effort, which looks impressive. And walking, especially walking down stairs, suddenly feels very floaty and effortless. And it looks great regardless of whether you wear it as underwear or outerwear.
You can put a corset on yourself, but you’ll need at least one body-length mirror and a lot of flexibility. I can do it, but I can also do up my own zippers. It’s easier when someone else does it because they have more leverage.
Start slow and work up. Don’t try to tightlace all at once. Don’t trust stores that try to tightlace you all at once. It’s bad for you and it’s bad for the corset.
Sorry, this is super long. :D But that’s some of the stuff I didn’t know when I started!