i hate to ask and have this come off in ignorance, but i feel for the comfort of myself and others i have to; why is misandry in the blacklist of the server? i noticed that blacklisted terms are submitted per user as opposed to moderators themselves (i assume), so im not insinuating that it’s a server wide belief, but i don’t think i can jive well in there if misandry is included in the blacklist because the rhetoric of reverse oppression being real applies to any members’ belief systems. i am desperate for a community but not if i will indirectly bring or cause stirring discomfort or antsy-ness. thank you in advance.
I’m going to be honest with you, misandry is on there because we have a member who has personal history being attacked for their gender identity. We don’t allow misogyny either, we are completely anti-hate for any kind of identity, misandry is just something one of our users had personal experience with and wanted to make sure it wouldn’t be brought into our server. Hope this clears anything up! If you have any other questions about our server feel free to message me on here or on discord and we can discuss it further.












