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I finished KGKG/Thank You Next and i have thoughts.
I mean unfortunately it is real life folks 🤷🏻♀️ The man who cheated multiple times still got his happy relationship, the guy who manipulated and emotionally exploited her basically walked away untouched, while Leyla was the one left alone dealing with anxiety attacks, trauma and all the emotional aftermath. THAT is real life sometimes. The people who hurt you are not always punished and the person who suffered the most doesn’t automatically get some perfect healing ending to balance things out. Sometimes you’re just left trying to pick yourself back up while everyone else moves on normally. So honestly her suddenly getting another grand love story immediately after everything would’ve felt way less realistic to me. They tried to show you that it REALLY affected her, even when she was trying to move on with Ali. Her heart wasn’t fully in it because emotionally she was still exhausted and damaged from everything before.
I actually think people underestimate how much the season was focused on emotional burnout rather than romance. Leyla didn’t feel like someone entering a new exciting chapter of life, she felt like someone emotionally drained trying to function normally again. And I appreciated that because healing in real life is usually ugly, awkward and inconsistent. You can meet a good person and still not be emotionally ready. You can want peace and still feel attached to pain. That part actually felt very honest to me.
My issue this season isn’t even really the plot itself, it’s the odd writing choices and pacing decisions. Like Sarp’s whole character and his feelings for Leyla… they still made it a point to show he STILL has feelings for her and then… nothing. Leyla never finds out, he never fully acts on it, and he himself never really has a proper epiphany or emotional resolution to move on either. It just kind of existed in the script and then floated there unfinished which made it feel more confusing than meaningful. Like WHY include it if there’s no payoff emotionally or narratively 😭 it felt like the writers wanted emotional tension without committing to the consequences of it. And the thing is, unresolved writing can work when it feels intentional, but here it genuinely felt like they changed direction halfway through the season. Which is very odd given that seasons 2 and 3 were filmed together at the same time. There were so many scenes that felt like they were building toward a confrontation or revelation and then the story would abruptly pivot away from it. That’s where a lot of the frustration comes from for me because the emotional setup was actually there. The execution just didn’t fully land.
There were honestly episodes where I genuinely thought Netflix had accidentally cut scenes because some episodes felt so short and abrupt 💀 certain storylines dragged on forever while other major moments were wrapped up in five minutes. And they’re literally all lawyers yet we barely got proper courtroom scenes?? That part was so strange to me because the legal aspect could’ve added way more intensity and depth to the season. I would’ve loved more litigation scenes, more strategy, more emotional confrontations in court instead of everything happening offscreen or getting rushed through. It almost felt like the show stopped trusting its own strongest elements halfway through.
I actually liked Ali though. I know people keep saying they had no chemistry but I genuinely think that was intentional. Sometimes the “right” person is completely different from the toxic patterns you’re used to and I liked that contrast even if it wasn’t passionate or dramatic in the way viewers expected. Their relationship felt awkward and restrained because Leyla herself was awkward and restrained emotionally. She couldn’t fully open herself up and I think that distance was realistic even if it wasn’t necessarily entertaining television for everyone.
And honestly the more I think about the open ending, the more I kind of understand why they did it that way. Of course part of me wants a season 4 just to properly tie things up because there are clearly unresolved storylines and emotional loose ends everywhere 😭 but maybe the fact that it DOESN’T feel fully tied up is literally the point. Life rarely gives people neat emotional conclusions. Sometimes relationships stay unresolved, feelings stay messy, and people leave permanent marks on your life without some dramatic final closure scene. That’s why I genuinely started feeling like this might’ve actually been intended as the real ending with the inclusion of John, because otherwise randomly placing him there at the end feels way too deliberate to mean nothing. They could’ve easily given Leyla a fully closed-off “moving on” ending if they wanted to, but instead they intentionally left emotional ambiguity there. And weirdly… I didn’t completely mind it here. I normally don't like open endings. I think the reason it worked for me is because they spent the entire season showing how deeply traumatized Leyla actually was. They didn’t portray her as someone who simply “got over it.” They showed how certain relationships fundamentally alter you emotionally, even long after they’re over. So the open ending didn’t feel romanticized to me as much as it felt psychologically realistic. Sometimes healing isn’t about fully forgetting someone or getting perfect closure. Sometimes it’s just learning how to continue living with everything that happened to you. And I think that’s what the ending was trying to say, even if the execution itself was still messy in places.
And finally if it wasn’t obvious already, Serenay truly is the best female actress in the country. She’s just so natural. She never looks like she’s acting, which is honestly one of the hardest things for actors to achieve. With some actors you can literally see the performance happening, you can see them trying to emote or deliver a “big scene,” but with her it always feels completely lived in and effortless. She’s always genuinely in the moment to the point where the camera almost disappears when she’s onscreen. Even when the writing gets messy or inconsistent, she somehow still grounds the character emotionally and makes you believe every reaction. There were scenes this season that honestly would not have worked at all with a weaker actress because so much of Leyla’s arc relied on subtle expressions, silence, emotional restraint and internal conflict rather than dramatic dialogue. And Serenay carries that effortlessly. Sometimes she genuinely makes her costars look bad because her acting feels so raw and believable compared to more standard TV drama performances around her 😭 she has that rare screen presence where even when nothing major is happening, your eyes are still automatically drawn to her. She’s just something else honestly.
For me it’s still season 2, then season 3 and then season 1 dead last because season 1 was genuinely lowkey insufferable 😭 everyone was so unlikeable and messy all the time that it became exhausting to watch. This season at least had more of a slice-of-life vibe and felt calmer and more grounded which I actually enjoyed despite all its obvious flaws. It wasn’t perfect at all, but I still found it weirdly comforting and easier to sit through than the constant chaos from earlier seasons. Overall enjoyed it very much.
