#kink groups

[reneestjohn]

I’ve fallen in love with a Daddy in my kink group. I wanna go for it. It’ll get messy tho .I know it. Should I anyway ?

It depends.

If either of you are married , then no (you need to fall back in love with your own partner , which would probably be the reason you are there in the first place💡).

If this Daddy belongs to a friend of yours , than definitely leave him alone.

But...

If he is not married , than yes, you should definitely go for it.

Even if he is in a committed relationship, I would still try to make him my own.

Work your magic on him😌👌🏻.

A committed relationship (girlfriend) , is different than marriage (wife) .

That is how my mind works .

I was crazy about a Daddy in a kink group with my former Dom & I, a long time ago.

He was so awesome . That experience made me realize, I wanted a Daddy🌹.

His Little was very smart however. She noticed that , and immediately snatched him away😂 .

They dropped out of our group completely .

It was a very smart move on her part🤗.

Once you find your forever partner , I would advise you to stop attending kink groups with strangers altogether .

They are a breeding group for cheating, jealousy , and drama.

Instead, form your own kink group of trusted friends .

That is what I did . We meet once a month.

I hope you find what you are searching for.

Best Wishes💫

[reneestjohn]

You keep talking about a kink club and a kink group . Are those the same thing ?

No Dear Friend .

They are not ❌

I can only speak from my experience.

My kink group is a place to talk to other kinky people about shared kinks (sex practices )and lifestyle.

My kink club , was designed as a place to have sex with members in a safe discreet environment. Generally for specific types of sex that would be difficult to set up yourself ; ie bisexual threesomes , rape play, etc . Members are tested for STD’s and rooms are monitored . It is really nice.

I met my Daddy in a kink group (I was just a Little looking for a Daddy)❤️🥺

I also highly recommend kink clubs as well, depending on what you are into .

Best Wishes💫

[reneestjohn]

We have a online kink group . We talk and share . I’ve sent you a link . It safe and confidual

Hello Dear Friend

I receive many “secret” groups invites (if I am following you).

Thank you for thinking of me.

I do not use Tumblr for hookups and /or to meet other kinky people . I have thankfully found that irl❤️

Speaking of hookups, how do you keep your members safe from predators, except for making sure everyone is of legal age ?🤔

Let’s be grow ups here for a moment. Most bloggers join groups like that to get laid

😉😈

My kink group was located in a physical building . Security would not allow you admittance inside without your members pass /driver’s license (and that of your guest )medical members assisted with slight emergencies.

Most importantly, background checks were administered to new members , address were verified as well( if 911 was called , we needed to know where you actually lived)

Members with medical experience and access would give STD tests (my first daddy did this , that is how I know), and provided assistance for minor mishaps that did not require embarrassing visits to the ER, as I mentioned earlier .

Most importantly, is your group inclusive ? On Tumblr I notice most “kinky” people are heterosexual and poly . Most have female Submissives.

This is not representative of kink groups I have been associated with. Terf , racist and kink shaming are not allowed , and cause for dismissal

This is important because most kinksters I know want to explore new things ; like bi threesomes , etc

Lastly , along with the security guards , do you have someone assigned to monitor the chat /sex rooms? I generally volunteered for that job🤗 (I volunteered in lue of paying the expensive membership fees , which I could not/still could not afford )

I have a Daddy irl now.

He decided a long time ago , that we were finished with kink groups . He said we are concentrating on each other , and our relationship only , which is fine by me 🥺

Even though he does not know of Tumblr, I still honor /respect him here , and despite occasional flirting, remain faithful to him.🌸.

Thank you for the ask and request dear friend , even though I always decline them .

It is nice to find truly kinky people (which is why I am probably following you 🌹)

I love that most about Tumblr.

Best Wishes💫

[reneestjohn]

I’m not a little and a don’t want to call my man daddy. I can’t find my footing here .

Hello Dear Friend.

I believe you just did 💡

Understanding your wants is a process required to full filling your needs .

Rough sex play does not feel good to me, nor is it nourishing to my soul . Also , I am disabled , so there is that .

There were a lot of great Doms in my original kink group , but my current Daddy brought balance and stability to my life . Being with him was like drinking a warm bowl of bone broth soup to me...high quality nourishment .

I knew he was the one 🌹.

Eventually we went our own way , and left that kink group . We found another with time (tbh, my Daddy is not into groups at all anymore).

I am sharing this so you will understand there is not a wrong or right way to do you .

Once you prioritize your needs , you will be able to identify a partner who is aligned with you and your value system .

Believe me , It is one of the best feelings❤️ .

Please take your time and respect the process .

Best Wishes💫