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[gentlemanwealdan]

I knew watching Saturday morning cartoons would affect me later in life...

[gentlemanwealdan]

Sorry if this is a weird question, I (female, 23) was just wondering if you could share any tips on how to give a guy an excellent blowjob? And how to improve Sex for a guy in general... I'm inexperienced in these things, but I really want to know and learn. I want my future partner to have a good time with me and make sure I can make someone enjoy sexy times

Hi Anon, personally I don't find it a weird question cause how are you going to know if you don't ask right? To start off you've hit the most important point of any sexual play and my overall Rule #2: Communication is Key!

I could write a lot on this subject but I'll keep it somewhat brief below, if you (or anyone else) wants the whole thing let me know and I'll make sure I get it all down.

So the TLDR is;

Make eye contact - doesn't have to be continuous just look at their eyes/face once in a while. Makes for a connection rather than you just performing the action. Ask them for feedback throughout - this sounds weird but can be something as simple as "You like that..?" in your seductive voice. To be fair if they're moaning and not pushing you off then you're doing great! Focus on your breathing (and take breaks!) - please, we would rather you lived through the experience, if only to do it again to us. Moan! - When you're sucking, if you're enjoying it, moan with pleasure. Please, this let's us know that you're enjoying it too so we can just relax and enjoy what you're doing to us. Don’t be afraid to add spit (lots of it) - or lube, flavoured if you're not sure about the taste. Dry rubbing against such a sensitive area is no joke, trust me on that. Don’t put too much pressure on yourself to make them ejaculate - just have fun, learn from their feedback both verbal and non-verbal and do whatever's right for you. Keep a towel handy for later - doesn't have to be a towel but there can be a LOT of cleanup no matter Carve out time to cuddle/aftercare - I shouldn't have to explain this one, you're both going to need it and if they're any kind of gentleman then they're going to want to make sure you are perfectly good.

Hope that helps!

[gentlemanwealdan]

Ignoring the fact that all women and bodies are beautiful...what's your type?/ any specific features that stand out to you?

Hi Anon,

I can't ignore that! All bodies, women and even some men are beautiful. I get what you're saying though, people use it as a cop out answer when all you're really asking is for people's preferences.

For me, there are two features that stand out.

First being a nice bottom. That's 'nice' in my eyes. There's no right or wrong size and/or shape I just want to be able to leave pretty handprints all over it and get my teeth into it... sorry, that should be 'get my teeth into it' ahhh... Eyes, a pair of beautiful eyes and I'll probably forget what I was saying as well as who and where I am. Sounds corny but I've met a lot of people and the first thing you usually see is their eyes, that is 'the' moment for me.

Okay, I could go on now, mouth (please, I know why no, I'm not telling), hips (seriously, at one point I'm going to want to hold these) and the weirdest(?) one the whole shoulder, neck and clavicle region (probably why I like strapless/gypsy style tops).

I think that's enough for the moment, I may need a lie down now, thanks Anon!