Jul 2, 2023
I sometimes feel very insecure for thinking a certain way but man, at 9 or 10 years old I wanted to be a fighter jet pilot (thanks Top Gun) or a househusband. And the teacher laughed at both things but I'm an adult and I love cooking and cleaning for people I love.
And extending that to even kink. When I'm Dominant, you'll see it and that doesn't negate how I am and what I do when I'm not in the dynamic. That even in those acts I can turn them in their head and make them Dominant.
It's really weird to be thinking about this when so much is going on in my life, but feeling secure in why and how I'm Dominant and how I am as a partner/lover is something I'm proud of.
