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God Zoroarks are some of the cutest and most lovely pokemon to cuddle with or be with. It's even better if your someone who doesn't like crowds or people interacting with you from nowhere cause then you and your zoroark partner can just hide with his illusions.

That and the illusions they can use to hide you both so you can have some "fun" publicly ;3c

That's such a clever idea! A Zoroark for all your social anxiety-reducing needs!! 🥺I can only imagine how much more comfortable that could make someone, knowing if they become overwhelmed, their partner can cloak them both and get them out of the bad situation. 😭That is absolutely precious.

(Also I am not encouraging "fun" in public but if I can't see you or hear you, well...)

Thanks for sharing anon, Zoroark are totally a great choice for a romantic or sexual partner. <3

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The whole White girls are built to crave eeveelutions meme is clearly exaggerated. Do you have any advice for someone whose Umbreon is clearly showing interest, though?

From what I remember, Eeveeloutions are generally some of the easier Pokemon to engage in a new relationship with, particularly Sylveon, Espeon, and Umbreon as their evolutions require they have a very close bond with their trainer.

For your Umbreon, if you're not interested, it's wisest to gently let them down. Umbreon are generally huge softies (it of course can vary, there's no one-fit-all personality for Pokemon!), and they have huge hearts that are pretty obvious when they're comfortable around someone. Because of that, it's very, VERY important to make sure you make clear to your Umbreon that their interest hasn't changed your relationship. That regardless of how they feel, you still love them and want to be friends. It will take time for them to hopefully come around to accepting your decision, and depending on your Umbreon in particular, they may want to be comforted or they may want to be alone. Respect their choice and give them space as needed.

Now, if they're interested, it's as simple as telling them you are! It's up to you to figure out the pace you want to take, and to convey your boundaries and really pay attention to their's. Just because they can't speak doesn't mean they aren't showing you their comfort or discomfort in other ways.

If you want something a little fancier, or more romantic, a picnic under the full moon with their favorite food is a beautiful way to accept their advances. You can go a step further even and get them a gift. As you can imagine, I've seen Umbreons who like trinkets with moons on them, any phase. Some other fun ones are stickers that glow in the dark, star patterned clothing or collars, and despite having no connection to it, Moonstone is something that they seem to find irresistible!

I hope you and your Umbreon can be happy together, regardless of your relationship. <3 Let me know if you need more help, and please keep us updated on how it goes!!

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"So you love animals" babe, my partners are literally the pokemon you call "literally a grown man in a clown suit" and make stupid jokes about them "milf hunting" >:(

(my partners are Kantonian Mr. Mime named Choco and Galarian Mr. Mime named Vanil ☺️)

"Sorry about the outburst of anger, i just really tired of all Mr. Mime allegations.

Like, that's the most sweet pokemon you could have, they literally can do anything for their human, that's how their nature works.

I love my two clown boys sm 😭"

Nooo, anon, I'm so sorry too! You're totally justified feeling that way. I know my partner is a more conventional pokemon to be attracted to and have a relationship with, but literally any pokemon is a fine pokemon to be with. You can't help how your heart feels (or your bits lmao xD), and you shouldn't be made to feel bad over your attraction! It's in such bad taste when people accuse us of harming our lovers or whatever. Like no???? We didn't do anything wrong??? 😭

No matter what anyone says, you and your lovely Mr. Mimes are always welcome and accepted on this blog! Your love is beautiful and wonderful. 🥺 Never forget that anon!!!!

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I've been with my Hypno for nearly a year now,our anniversary being in September! but it's definitely not easy being in a romantic relationship with a psychic pokémon, don't get me wrong, it's nice that she can use her telempathy so we can actually communicate to each other. But at times I do get worried if she get read my pervy thoughts, and that her strong psychic powers could hurt me in some way, even if it is a mistake.

Congratulations on almost a full year together! That is a HUGE milestone! <3

Like any good relationship, consent and trust are two things that need to constantly be worked on and tweaked to find the spot that works for you and your partner(s). And to know that in the future, even if you're both comfortable for a long time, that it may need to be tweaked again. Consent can change, and accepting that is important!

Even though you guys are still really fresh, I can tell from your posts how much she loves you and you love her. That is not a fix-all of course for any issues or other things, but that makes for a strong foundation to build the rest of the relationship on.

I don't blame you for being scared she may accidentally hurt you. I had similar fears in the beginning years of my "marriage" to Sylvia, you know. Especially in that point of time where she had evolved into a Combuskin and was rather rebellious and rowdy. I was afraid she might hurt me on accident since she was so set in her ways on doing things her way or the highway, and was easily excitable.

The fact is...that our partners will hurt us eventually. Us as humans, we will do so too. Physically, emotionally, or otherwise. It will be an accident (it should be anyway, if done purposefully, that is another problem in and of itself). It can shake our trust, our communication, our bond. It may very well do so.

The important thing to know is that, above everything else, conveying this to your Pokemon is the first step to making up and healing together. To remember that, knowing they care for you, will make them feel terrible too for hurting you! Being gentle with one another and asking what needs to be done to resolve this between you, or telling them what needs to be done, is imperative.

I tell you this from experience. ^^;;

I will not promise or try to reassure you that it will never happen, I can't predict the future - I'm not a Delphox after all! - but I can reassure you that it can be resolved. In whatever way that makes sense to you at the time it does happen.

I'm sorry that you're feeling that anxiety over your partner, but I know despite that, she loves you and wants nothing more to be with you and protect you, just as you do for her.

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I've had a crush on my partner Pokemon, Armarouge, for a while now.. He's always been there for me sense my last Partner left, he got me to go adventuring again, he protects me, he's strong and smart and so very kind, with endless patients for me when I mess up. I'm sooo worried about messing up this partnership we have I haven't said anything to him and I wouldn't even know where to start... Do you have any advice?

Thanks for coming into my inbox, Anon. 🥺 It's not easy dealing with feelings for your partner Pokemon.

(As a quick aside, I'm so sorry your previous partner left you. I've heard second-hand stories about such a phenomenon, but never from someone first-hand. If you ever want to talk about it, please let me know, you're always welcome in my inbox.)

As for how to approach?

Well, from what I remember, Armarouge are pretty fiercely loyal and chivalrous to a fault almost. A lot of them have deep-seeded instincts to protect and care for those in their life that they are close with. I've never known them to be particularly physically affectionate, but I've heard stories of the right partner bringing their tenderness out more. Your millage may vary of course, not all Armarouge are the same!

Saying that, because of the way they are with their trainers, it's really, REALLY hard to shake their core belief in you. Even if you confess and he doesn't feel the same, I suspect he will look at you no differently and still support you as much as he always has. He may, for a while, support you even more extensively while you heal. That is of course if he doesn't reciprocate!

If he's the type to enjoy gifts, like physical objects, starting there is a perfectly good idea. Does he know how to read? I know some bipedal Pokemon learn to read and write, but of course not all do and it's not an easy skill to teach (a lot of Pokemon can learn to read in general, but nobody generally is ready for that conversation lmao). If he knows how to read, it's a perfectly valid idea to get him a little gift and a note to confess your feelings. If he doesn't read, an intimate gesture would be to see if he'll let you help him clean and polish his armor.

As I'm sure you know when you gave it to him to help him evolve, the armor an Armarouge wears is the most precious item they own. Since you both seem to have such a deep connection already, try seeing if he'll trust you with polishing his armor. You can talk about how you feel while you two work on it together. That open trust can do wonders to make you feel more confident and to make him feel more connected to you.

Regardless anon, it's going to be okay. <3 I'm sure you'll be able to come to a happy conclusion with your partner. Keep us in the loop, I know people and myself will want to know how it turns out!

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I was thinking...

I am not super-duper knowledgeable about a lot of Pokémon and how they are as lovers, but I would love to see if I can help you guys out.

If you're currently looking to start a relationship with one (or more!) of your Pokémon, please come into my inbox to see if I can help you! Starting a relationship can be scary, but you don't have to go in unprepared. I want to be here to help you through the first steps of showing interest!

I also would love to see if I can offer help to those who did *not* make the first move, and you are unsure of where to go from here! It's normal to feel lost and unsure. I am willing to be a helping hand!

If anyone is interested in potential tips, advice, or if you just need an ear, anon is always on for your comfort. ♡

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On anon so I dont out myself, but!

I really have been wanting to try and get into a relationship with some of my pokemon. Specifically! My Sandslash (who is admittedly already always a little frisky in general, but we haven't committed to anything yet, though I know he gets around), My Gliscor, my Grovyle, and there's this wild Scolipede that's been living in the forest near where I live that comes by often. Sometimes to play with Sandslash, and just! Augh, I love all my pokemon so much, from Haunter to Toxicroak I wish it was even a possible polycule to work out q~q

Oh my! Seems like you have a lot going on. ^^;;

If anything, I think you already have the start of your journey there, so to speak. If your Sandslash is already frisky with you, he seems like the best one to talk to first. Especially if you're interested in an eventual polycule. Whether people or pokemon, having more than two people in an intimate relationship takes even more work and more time.

In this instance, your best approach is to just have a chat with him and see if you two can come to some agreement. Unless of course there's something stopping you from approaching him and taking it further?

If you're really hesitant to start with your Sandslash for whatever reason, pick the next pokemon out of your partners that you're interested in that has the stronger bond with you. That can help ease you both, as there is a lot of trust already built there. That way neither of you feel like you'll go too far, as you'll already trust one another. ^^

The important part is just one step at a time, especially when trying to consider the rest of your Pokemons' feelings. (:

I'm sure it'll work out anon! Keep us all up to date with how this goes!!

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I'm so happy that you really like me and my sleepers relationship!! it makes me very happy that others are accepting of our relationship, it's so weird how it use to be accepted and at one point we could get married 🌹

OH RIGHT, THAT TOTALLY USED TO BE A THING. How did we end up going backwards?? I wonder what the story about that is, I should do some research...

For as passionate as I am about pokemon x human relationships, I don't know much more then the basic history of it from forever ago. That's actually embarrassing what, I need to fix that-

AND YEAH I'M SUPER STOKED TO SEE YOU GUYS IN THE TAG. It's so important we all stick together and support one another! Maybe some day we'll go back to how it should be, with pokemon x human relationships getting the same recognition and rights as human x human relationships.

We'll just have to start advocating, one relationship at a time I suppose!