This stems from K's post about Amber and girl/girl smut.
Hi, I am Gir, an admin for ksmutts. I am a girl. I am currently 21 years old and I live in Alabama,USA.
I have been bisexual since I was 11 years old.
At first I thought it was a phase or that I was experimenting, but as I grew a little older I found that I lent more towards women that I did men.
When I came out to a friend, she and others told me that I was disobeying God and my faith. Telling me that it was wrong and that I was failing him. At first I was scared and alone, but as time went out I began to question it.
It may have helped that I had a bad experience with men, but I still choose it. I will tell you something not many people know. It is my deepest secret. I was sexually abused at the age of 13 by a family friend's dad. No one beleived me and no on even cared. That may have something to do with it. I don't know.
I have always found men attractive, but only from the waist up. I have no desire for a dick. Only their face, chest, abs, arms, etc. Everything above the belt line. For women I have always loved them as a whole. From head to toe I have find them beautiful, attractive, a work of art, not one the same as the last.
I, Gir, am bisexual. I am proud of it. I hope by telling you this it opens up your mind too.
I trust all of you with this information, please trust in me as well. If any of you ever want to talk or need a ear I am here. I promise. I will not judge you or scold you. I am living proof that it is a choice. There is nothing wrong with it.