#lachelnbitte

[sjwsunny]

i have an idea for cope-shippers! instead of making blogs that are just ship-centric, we can make blogs that are centered only on cope-shipping. ie; blogs only for abuse victims using that ship. that way cope-shippers could isolate themselves from the toxic people in the community. we'd have to make it very apparent on the blogs that these ideologies shouldn't be used in real life, etc etc. that way everyone's safe! (sorry for messaging u so much haha i just like to comment on stuff)

:o that sounds like a good idea !

[sjwsunny]

wow im sorry you're getting called abusive for calling out shippers. like.. you're definitely not insulting coper's coping mechs because i, as someone who uses cope-shipping, have never noticed that. but boy do i luv when non-copers use copers as an excuse for their shitty moralities

the real seebs is saying I’m attacking ppl’s sexualities bc apparently shipping is a part of sexual preference which is a part of sexual orientation now??

and apparently I’m silencing survivors by telling them they’re gross idk

[sjwsunny]

im pretty sure i messaged you a while back about some b/illdip shipper called lanxborealis?? they had went on hiatus but now theyre back lol and nasty as ever

yeah you did but yikes I’ll get around to that callout post when I get home

[presidentalpaca]

lachelnbitte replied to your post “hey guys are we having a “trans people post selfies!” for tdov...”

ya ya there's tdov tomorrow! saw one post abt it

awesome! thanks for telling me. ill probably reblog my post from last year??? idk but ill definitely post new selfies tomorrow.

[sjwsunny]

i'm rlly sorry if im spamming your inbox with this!! but i actually don't really get the notion that copers have to keep their romanticization private. like, mostly because as a copeshipper, i love the validation felt when other people like my content, and actually seek out content which involves the reformation of an abuser. all the content i see doesn't actually erase the core abusive elements of the ship, but only focuses on the redemption. sorry again if im spamming your inbox!

oh well mostly it’s so that non-survivors don’t see the romanticized content and like it. 

[sjwsunny]

make sure to be careful on their blog. a pal of mine read a fic of theirs and apparently it's like,, graphic child porn so if that triggers u i'd def ask someone else to get screencaps

actually it looks like they’re officially leaving tumblr for a while at least

smthn about their mental health crumblin and they weren’t writing out of their own enjoyment, only for other people and it was really exhausting them

like, we should def still collect some receipts but it’s also important to know that they’re gonna be inactive for a while

[sjwsunny]

you've probably already heard about this person but; block lanx///borealis (without the slashes). they're an adult and ship b*lld*p, and made an extremely toxic au called the "sugar daddy" au. it's exactly what it sounds like. i suggest not going on their blog since you're a survivor, and to any other survivors, please stay away from this person! i wouldve made a callout post long ago but that's a lot of drama

I’ll make a callout after I finish my hw!

[sjwsunny]

hi, this is the mod from lxchelnbxtte! i just wanted to apologize again bc i didnt expect this much backlash, and it's partially my fault bc i made one of the posts? i really do hope you stop getting anons soon!

I think that the last person has finally left me alone, but it took four requests to stop messaging me before they finally did.

but dw bout it! the way you worded it did make it seem like I did intend on intentionally triggering people, and I don’t blame anyone at all for being upset about that. 

I would be super upset too if I heard someone was planning to trigger people on purpose just to be a troll. I probably would have reacted the exact same way as the majority of the people who sent me messages.

to clear up any other confusion people may have about what exactly my intentions were with the badshipfics blog (which is now copefics) it would be super helpful if you rbed this post