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Laziness and procrastination plague our generation. Check out these hadiths that will help give you the motivation to fill your days with meaning. Up now on the blog! #procrastination #layaliwebzine #layali #quote (at www.layaliwebzine.com)

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22 Things I Learned at 22

I turned 22 earlier this year and looking back, I really have learned a lot about myself, others and life in general. I’ve experienced more this year than I have at any other age most probably because moving to New York City, leaving home for the first time, and learning to be independent are built-in teachers. Moving to a new city pushed me out of my comfort zone enough to see myself from a new perspective or it could be that 22 is just that kind of age. You don’t need to move locations to learn about yourself and others. You just need a change in environment whether it is internally or externally. But if anything is true, I can safely say that Taylor Swift was right when she said at 22 “we’re happy free confused and lonely at the same time, it’s miserable and magical”. It certainly is a mix of all these feelings. But one thing to remember is that throughout these changes, there is always one constant and that is God’s existence and hand in every experience. So here are 22 things I learned at 22. 1. Relationships grow and change just as people do. They grow, break and mend themselves. Sometimes this is just as important for friendships as it is for an individual to grow and learn. 2. Don’t chase love, let it find you When you are the best that you can be, you will attract a reflection of that; thus, finding the best for yourself. 3. It is okay to be confused. Perhaps confusion is the one thing that motivates us to find what we want and what’s important to us. Being unsure leads us to figuring out a plan. Take it easy, pray about it and your path will take its course. 4.Change is inevitable. It is so easy to find comfort in the usual. But change is going to happen and luckily through this change you learn about yourself in ways you never knew. I know I did. 5.Take a break from social media Social media is great for staying connected, but it is necessary to take a break from this overly connected world we live in, allowing us to appreciate the moments that cannot be captured through a picture or a tweet. 6. Now is the time to work towards your goals. This is the youngest you will be. Here, right now. It is mandatory to take full initiative now to work hard and stay determined to reach our goals. Time is of the essence. 7. Be open to meeting new people When we meet new people, we learn about not just them, but ourselves. Being in environments that are not of our comfort zone show us what values we adhere t. It also really tests our ability to stay true to ourselves while learning from others. 8.Your parents are your best friends Having a friendly, honest and trusting relationship with your parents is one of the most important things I have learned. They are the people who know us better than we know ourselves. They are full of wisdom, experience and only want our happiness. Cultivate that relationship. 9.You are never tested beyond what you can handle “Allah does not burden a soul beyond that it can bear…” (2:286) Have faith in that. 10. You cannot please everyone and not everyone will like you There will always be people who have a problem with who you are, what you do and what you want to become. Let them. Pray they find ease in their hearts. Because it shouldn’t stifle what your aims are. 11. Work out and be healthy Caring for your body is just as important as caring for you spiritual self. When you feel and look good you will have a positive attitude and good things will come your way. 12. Keep a journal, self reflect, feel emotions There is something about writing out your feelings and emotions that makes understanding them easier. Whether it is a bad day or a great night. Write it out. You’ll see it through a different lens. When your inner thoughts are on paper, a new perspective emerges. Plus, you’ll be able to look back and see how you’ve changed emotionally. 13. It is okay to cry Psychologically, crying is a cathartic activity that puts the heart at ease. Let it out. You’ll feel the difference. 14. Find a hobby Finding a hobby keeps your personal traits sharp and in check. It helps you foster your interests and is always a great way to make new friends. 15. Everyone just wants acceptance Humans have a natural tendency to steer towards where they are accepted. It is easy to go where the heart feels content and at ease. This acceptance can be found in a spouse, in friendships, in family members or in a hobby that puts you at ease. So always be aware that everyone is struggling to find a home where they feel comfortable and wanted. 16. What goes around certainly comes back around—don’t hurt people Words, thoughts, actions and attitudes are all ways in which we are prone to conveying some sort of negative or positive affection towards others. The repercussion of these actions may not be apparent right away but what goes around comes back around in ways you would never expect. 17. Be nice to everyone Not only will this make you a better person, but it will make your life brighter and others will appreciate it too. 18. Jealousy only hurts you Jealously is a poison from within. Learn to be happy for the happiness of others. Stop comparing your life to everyone else’s. We all have a unique path and there is no timeline in which everyone should be boxed into. Learn to genuinely appreciate success for others because this will only bring success and happiness closer to you. 19. When reality doesn’t coincide with your fantasy plan, don’t freak out Actually, you probably will. So freak out. Then realize that there is reasoning behind what didn’t work out by reinstating faith in God’s ultimate path for you. 20. Not everyone deserves a second chance, but everyone has the right to earn it Forgiveness is not always about the other person. Sometimes it is about letting go of the control a situation has on your emotions. Forgiving means setting yourself free from grudges and becoming whole again. Thus, when it comes to second chances, it may not always be an instance where it is deserved, but given the right actions; second chances can always be earned. You get to decide whom you would like to keep as a part of your life, so hand them out with caution. 21. Quality over quantity The type of people you surround yourself with should bring something positive into your life. Don’t be afraid to rid your circle of toxic friendships that don’t motivate you to be close to God. The number doesn’t matter because what is better, a thousand fake friends or one genuine friend? Well, you do the math. 22. Learn to love yourself Be happy with who you are and don’t try to be anyone else. Learn about what you like and dislike in every aspect of life and nurture your interests and relationships. Realize everyone is different, and in that find acceptance and celebration. — Hira Mirza is Layali’s Advice Blogger. She graduated with a degree in Psychology and Biology from the University of Houston. She currently attends New York University for graduate school and hopes to serve in the healthcare field in the future. She is one of four sisters and resides in New York City.

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