#learnhowtoappreciate

[reas-world]

Happiness

When I was young, I have lots of dreams in my life. I have a full of confidence. My mother is always there to support me. I was so happy that time. But not all the time, happiness is always there. you will also experience pain and failures. My mother died, and that time, I was so weak. I learned how to handle the pain. I know that at this moment that most of the people are experiencing the pain, i know that you can get through it. You will see again the happiness. If you will not experience the pain, you will not appreciate the true meaning of happiness. For me, happiness is based on your perception in life. On how you appreciate the things on your surroundings. That's all and thank you.

[ilysmksanedrin]

How to Deal with Guys. :)

Not every guy is the same, yes they might have the same hobby, the same sport, the same type of girl but they will never be the same in terms of their attitudes. Every person is born with unique abilities and unique characteristics. Never confuse boys who hurt you with boys who can be mature enough to love a girl.

Never ever compare a guy with other guy, they hate that.

               Guys hate to be compared too. How would you feel if you are compared also, put yourself in that situation. It sucks. Every guy has different point of views in their lives. Wag na wag mo silang icocompare sa ibang tao or lalaki nakakababa ng ego yun. Hindi lahat ng lalaki ay iisa. They have their different point of views in their lives.

Don’t be rude

               We all know that when girls are pissed off they will act rude or something that they shouldn’t be. Even though we are pissed off let’s control ourselves. Guys need some respect too not just girls. Kung gusto mong marespeto ka bilang babae, respituhin mo sila bilang lalaki.

Don’t be so demanding

               Girls, even though guys will do everything you like don’t be so demanding that’s not being malambing or what. You’re just making guys think that you’re so materialistic. Hindi lang dapat lalaki ang nageeffort dapat mga babae rin. Hindi lang dapat babae ang naispoil dapat lalaki rin. Fair dapat.

Don’t assume things, ask before you judge.

               Alam naman nating sobrang magselos at maghinala ang mga babae pero diba deserved din ng mga lalaking magexplain. Huwag kasing puro salita, assume at galit pinapairal ng mga babae, relax, inhale, exhale at makinig sa paliwanag ng lalaki. Mas mapapadali ang usapan kung dadaanin sa maayos at walang away na pag-uusap.

Don’t make them feel like a prisoner

               Wag mo silang sinasakal, if they want to do something then let them. As long as they are honest and loyal just let them do whatever they like. They are not prisoners that you can control their actions and decisions. Magtiwala ka, wag mong iparamdam sakanila na sa tuwing may gagawin sila eh pag babawalan mo. They have their own lives. Hindi pwede yung laging ikaw yung kasama, they have their friends before you met them. Bigyan mo sila ng space to have fun with their friends as long as they will update you kung asaan sila at kung sino kasama nila.