Waaaaaaay too many of us women were or are, guilty of giving our time, attention, energy, pussy, paycheck and security to men who DESIRE us but don’t VALUE us. This comes from our own insecurity and desire to be approved of (approval from people is for home loans and shit. God already approved us.) LEARN. THE. DIFFERENCE. Desire = temporal Value = eternal How do you know if you too are guilty? You feel unfulfilled while in it, lonely while even in the person’s presence and, when the relationship ends (because those kind always do) you’re worse off than when you got into it. Emotionally you’re worn out, your self-esteem takes a hit - your view of yourself lowers, which in turn, makes you chase the very thing that treated you like trash. Ladies, to put it bluntly, stop lettin anything plug into you - physically, emotionally, sexually until YOU know your value so that you can crystal clearly see WHO is capable of not only understanding, but handling you like the gift you are. Raise your standard for admittance into your life, heart etc. Ain’t no dick worth a decrease in your self-esteem or a detour of your dreams, y’all 😜. Y’all don’t have time for that. Ok I’m done. Happy Sunday. #LifeLessons #RealTalk #LearnYourValue #SelfWorth #LoveYourself #RaiseYourStandard #YouAreEnough #GirlsCompeteWomenEmpower #repost @mrsjaeh https://www.instagram.com/p/BuAmzpwgnqD/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=83xaiexs9ke7
