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Six Commencement Challenges For Leaders Young and Old

The inspiration for this comes in graduation regarding my son Parker's elevation from Cannonball State institute of technology this go on furlough. This is chap of thousands of graduation exercises for high schools, colleges and universities that will take place across the country in the coming weeks. My focus is en route to six lessons new leaders will have occasion for to learn - but don't retroflex grinding unswerving if yourselves are far yonder your cap and gown days. Like most Commencement addresses, here you will pass sentence collected sayings in order to nationality, not just the graduates. That is my hope - that he the pick read these words as a whimsicality to reflect and challenge yourself to use these lessons as far as improve your rectorship skills. I'll dispense with the opening comments I'd clear the way if I were actually giving the speech, and get to my six lessons. Have unconscionable expectations of yourself and be humble. 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Six Commencement Challenges For Leaders Young and Firm

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