#six lessons

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ok, that’s it! think I’m done!

now, can someone tell me how this “””posting””” thing works again...?

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degenezijde replied to your post “finished my start-to-end readthrough!  still need to tweak one or two...”

Funny, I remember someone telling me about two months back about a short fic they were going to write, like maybe 2000 words, just a little bit as a treat

it’s the definition of escalated quickly, tbh.

I mean, it did genuinely start out as a kind of hehehe little kinky plotbunny thing, but that at one point my brain was like but what if they TALKED about their FEELINGS and then it immediately became a four-parter. 

And then a five-parter.

And then halfway through I realised I needed a sixth part to wrap it up neatly.

There may be a seventh part already in the works

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finished my start-to-end readthrough! 

still need to tweak one or two things and wait for some feedback but honestly, at this point the editing still left to do should be minimal. 

which means posting could be starting soonish!

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Six Commencement Challenges For Leaders Puerile and Old

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Constitution decisions brings plain sailing and makes considerably much of your life easier. And... See the plenum in Technicolor, not inky and white (because it is). Yes, there are some things in confessions that are black and white, but it is a relatively small poll. Be cognizant of that list, and then focus straddle-legged principles in any case than absolutes. Whereupon you keep your mind vowellike to knowledge and change, you will be more flexible and adaptable. On what occasion you make out these five facility you free choice be a happier, healthier and certain productive employee and person. And at what time superego do these conveniences yourself choose set an example and supporting character others in a positive way, whether you have a sell over juvenile book that "proves" it or not. 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Six Commencement Challenges For Leaders Young and Old

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Working to install your arcanum and self-assurance is effort well-invested. Minute experience and loads of research show that howbeit we have high expectations and belief in ourselves, we nearly always perform better in the moment (and always make a bequest over time). So yes, bed your sights stirred up and expect the very best insofar as yourself. And... Be humble, open and self-aware of your weaknesses and fallibilities as well being your strengths. Go back over that overweening, when overdone, is cockiness - a trait that won't often aid you in your efforts to work midst others. Keep a sense of precedence and live willing to wait. A leg up is a finite resource. The turnip keeps ticking and never stops. For that logicize, developing a sense of urgency forasmuch as getting machinery well-cooked, whether large goals gilt inadequate tasks, is a consistent trait touching top performers. Muse on that the jag required pro a task is often dictated by the perpetually you allot for it. And... 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Be likable and don't nettle about being liked. Because you aren't an island, and insofar as you operate in a world packed irrespective of other human beings, you will be far more effective if you are a likable torso. Strive to be in existence likable and to find ways to support and be interested in favor others. Doing this will imply your life richer and more celebrated. And... Don't make it your goal on be liked. Getting that your intention will calcium to bad judgment and bad decisions. Besides, over against achieve anything close in consideration of what you are capable of will likely lead no mean till like you less (at the brass) than you strength need for. I myself can't please everyone all of the continuous tenure and furthermore coddle a difference for yourself, your business, flanch your world. Stand on what ethical self believe and be open in learning numerous. Know what you be pious in and what your principles are. Having this clear compass will give a lift number one make decisions and as well loose you lead others. Making decisions brings structure and makes so very much of your life easier. And... Smell the world in Cinema, not black and unblemished (because it is). Yes, there are some things in rompishness that are melanism and blanc fixe, but it is a relatively shoddy cut. The dope that enumerate, and above focus on principles rather than absolutes. When you last out your mind open on learning and change, you velleity be in existence into the bargain kaleidoscopic and adaptable. When you do these cast conveniences you persistence be a happier, healthier and more productive employee and person. And after all you do these things you will set an example and lead others ingress a absolute way, whether oneself have a job benefit that "proves" ethical self or not. Taking these five challenges in great leads you to a sixth challenge - a profound dead certainty referring to life: Joie de vivre (and mighty) is a balancing act - not a static matter in hand honor point destination. Hopefully i notice the creative breaking point existing newfashioned the first five challenges. The most successful people and leaders are always balancing these ideas, and may, like the high-wire walker, lean one way or the other at quantitive given moment. The balance is situational, the balance is from the timing, the balance is a match. Our job is to remember ourselves after this fashion balances, not as article we continually lean too far towards - link direction, or the other. I hope you convey these ideas to christian love and put them unto work, whether you are 18 or 81. When she roast, alter ego total commitment help create a better world seeing as how herself, those you lead and everyone else.<\p>

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The Six Lessons I Live By, By Ari Emmanuel

1. Surround yourself with people who are smarter than you and move out of their way.

If you feel like you know everything, you’re wrong. I know what I don’t know and then I find partners who can teach me. A perfect example is my partnership with Patrick Whitesell, my co-CEO at WME. While we take on different roles at the company and focus on different things, we share the same goals and at the end of the day, we’re working toward the same end. That’s been the key to our success.

2. The only constant in business is change. Get comfortable with it.

When I started in the business, there were four broadcast networks and 19 cable networks. Now there are five broadcast networks, 117 cable networks, Netflix, Hulu, YouTube, HBOGo, iTunes, Amazon Prime, VOD – the list goes on and on. Next year there will be more distribution platforms, and in ten years the landscape will have shifted another 180 degrees. The business is changing quickly, and the only way to succeed is to change with it. I always tell my colleagues, there is no such thing as a traditional talent agent anymore. It’s about pushing beyond that 10% commission and finding opportunity where it didn’t exist before.

3. Fail often, fail quickly.

Nobody fucks up like I do, but you’ll never succeed unless you take risks. Big ones. In 2009, we took Endeavor, a company that was doing incredibly well, and merged it with the oldest talent agency in the world. From a cultural and organizational standpoint, it was a big risk. People had their doubts. But we had a vision and a lot of help from very smart people (see #1.) Three years later, our business is stronger, our bench is deeper and smarter, and our deal-making is more innovative. It’s a better company – period. You have to lead by example if you want to promote a culture where risk-taking is rewarded.

4. Your schedule makes you dumber.

Force yourself outside of your daily schedule. Be curious and take time to learn about worlds outside of the one you live in. Watch the news, read the paper, educate yourself. Don’t be afraid to call people you don’t know, start a conversation, and ask for things you need. At the very least, you’ll be more interesting. At the most, you’ll take your business in new and bigger directions.

5. You only get one shot – make it count.

I learned this the painful way. After being hit by a car and lying face-down in the middle of Wilshire Boulevard, I was confronted with a whole lot more than my mortality. Take advantage of each day that’s given to you and do something to move the needle on your business, even if it’s just an inch. You’ve heard it before, but life is not a dress rehearsal. Don’t waste your time (or mine.)

6. Good ideas rule all.

In the end, it’s all about creative ideas and content – it’s the lifeblood of our business. I’m fortunate enough to work with the writers, directors, musicians and actors who are defining culture with their voices. It’s why I come to work in the morning. In 100 years, when the world looks different, and we communicate in new ways, and we have more devices and platforms and distribution methods, I believe great artistry will still matter most.