I'm so sorry but I literally don't care if you've decided not to have kids. I truly and honestly don't care. Every other note and every other message I get is about "I could never". Bestie good?? You do not have to?? I am so happy for you?? You are honestly acting the same way as the society that you feel pressured by to announce this to the world and specifically ... a mother.
And I'm not talking about the "I don't have kids but here is a recommendation of a book I fucking LOVED as a kid" yall are my babies my angels my rag time gals
But I get so many messages that I just delete that boil down to "this fun anecdote that you have shared that brings you joy is exactly why I will never be having children because I could never!!!!!"
It is almost like no matter WHAT decision a woman in society makes .... they are deemed... to be incorrect and lesser than.... gasp
