Why is it wrong to have only LGBT+ characters die? Like, if I have a book thag only has 2 characters, one is, say, trans, and that person happens to die instead of the other, why is that problematic? I'm genuinely curious.
When I was growing up the message I got from mainstream fiction regarding my sexuality was “you are doomed to be beaten/murdered violently/die tragically from suicide at a young age and you will lose all your friends and family.”
There are so few lgbt+ characters in mainstream fiction and death and tragedy almost always follow them. So when the rare lgbt+ character appears in mainstream fiction, it’s a big deal for a lot of people. When the only character(s) who dies also happens to be the only lgbt+ character, it’s frustrating and it sends the message that I wrote above.
There are exceptions to this. A lot of things depend on context. For example, if a story has a small cast and the only lgbt+ character is an elderly person who dies from old age, I doubt I would associate that death with tropes surrounding dead lgbt+ characters. Others might disagree. Furthermore, violence and suicide are huge issues for lgbt+ people in real life and there is still a place for stories about those issues. It’s just that the “lgbt+ person dies tragically” plot seems to be the go-to plot for many writers and we’d like that to not be the first thought that comes to mind.