Ketu 9th House - The 9th H can provide insight on your father. Ketu in 9th H can indicate a religious, cultured, foreign, freedom-loving/giving, detached father.
EX: Absent Father - Ketu 9th H - 9th ruler in retrograde. This person's father has been absent their entire life.
Saturn in 4th H - One indicator of a restrictive or lonely childhood. One may have only one parent. Or parents are attempt to restrict you. One may have been born to a physically small home. One may feel an emotional coldness to one parent.
in 4th, saturn aspects first and sixth house. You may look older or behave in a more mature manner. You may be reserved and cold in demeanour. You may at some point in life have a bone related injury or disease.
DK in 3rd H - Your relationship with siblings (or cousins if you are close to any of them) will be influenced by the spouse.
If DK is a well placed benefic like Jupiter or Venus the spouse can play as a mediator or advisor to you & them. Spouse may befriend them.
If DK Is an ill placed malefic, the spouse can intentionally or unintentionally clash with your siblings.
EX: Scorpio DK Sun 3rd H - after marriage the person slowly lost the relationship w siblings & cousins (who were like siblings to this person as they grew up next door to one another).
In this case, the spouse was a narcissistic person. They clashed w the person’s family - thus, the siblings & cousins slowly distanced themselves. The spouse was emotionally abusive & kept the person isolated. The marriage ended in divorce.
Scorpio is a karmic sign. DK SUN in scorpio can indicate a karmic relationship with the father &/or spouse. From this person’s chart, it can be seen they were meant to handle this karmic connection alone & independently.
Mars and/or Ketu in 2nd H Libra - This is one indicator after marriage, your relationship with family becomes distant - emotionally or physically you go far away. You are meant to deal with the karmas (good or bad) of the marriage alone.
EX: MARS CONJUNCT KETU IN LIBRA 2ND H - I have seen this as a person’s mother dying shortly (4 years after) they married. They were an only child & did not have a relationship w their father. Thus, they were truly without their family after marriage. This will not be the case for most people with this placement. This person’s chart had many other indicators & dasha periods were triggering specific placements.
EX.2: MARS CONJUNCT VENUS IN LIBRA 2ND H -This person moved 3 hours away after marriage. They had a bad relationship w the family - thus, they were emotionally distant and barely saw the family for almost a decade. The marriage was full of ups and downs - eventually they divorced & the person had to fall back on their family for a place to live. The relationship w the family is now okay although some resentment from childhood remains.
PLANETS IN LIBRA - These are important and activated in married life. How will depend on the planet, aspects & nakshatra.
The above is an example of this. Mars is a cutting energy. 2nd H shows family & resources (ex: money, possessions, voice) in vedic. In libra, this will be activated in marriage thus a person is likely to “cut ties” w family to some extent depending on the entire chart.
●ARIES NORTH NODE [Rahu]+ LIBRA SOUTH NODE [Ketu] ●
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~ The North Node [NN] and South Node [SN] represent our life purpose or life lessons throughout our lifetime. It's like a tug of war between what you already know [your comfort zone [SN]] and what you need to learn to get happier [something out of your comfort zone [NN]]. Your SN also represents negative thoughts, habits, and patterns that you find difficult to escape. However, you must avoid embodying the extremes of your North Node.
~ REMEMBER: Just because your NN will help you become more fulfilled in life doesn't necessarily mean you should abandon all factors related to your SN. It's important to find a balance between this tug of war.
● [LSN] You had mastered the art of compromise and your relationships with others in your past life/early life. However, now you often find yourself conceding to others 'demands/needs' even if it goes against what you want to do. And even when you try to assert yourself you find yourself giving in to others. You tend to put others first, to your own detriment sometimes.
● [LSN] You often anticipate judgment. You believe that what others say about you says more about who you are than who you think you are
● [LSN] You want desperately to feel accepted since you've spent a lot of time feeling as if you aren't normal. You feel incredibly unprotected in this world, so you often go around looking for someone to save you [partnership, institution, job].
● To put it bluntly, Libra South Nodes often have a bad case of imposter syndrome. You're afraid that other people will think that you're trying to be more special or above everyone else, so you seek something to camouflage you in order to make yourself seem 'normal'. But sorry to say this,😔 no amount of social validation will ever heal you. YOU MUST seek it within yourself
● [LSN] You may find yourself terrified of being alone because you feel as if you aren't normal, so you feel that if you were to ever drift off from society, you would become "crazy", or people would think of you as such.
● [ANN] Something that is cute though is that Aries North Node's people are obsessives. You are obsessed with weird things that no one else ever thinks about. Whatever you're obsessed about, you don't want anyone else to know about it. This is because you want people to like you and you think that if people knew about what you liked then they wouldn't like you. TAKE PRIDE IN IT!!
● [ANN] It's hard for you to be in an argument with others because you always think you must change another person's mind to "win". You also find arguments frustrating because there may have been repressed conflict in your home life. Because of this ANNs have a hidden yearning that there will be an end-all conflict that ends all conflicts.
...The trouble with this is the end all conflict will never come. Fighting never changes anyone's mind either. It's disappointing but it's reality. Believing that escalating conflict leads to your victory is what traps you!! ❤️
● You will learn and grow when you realize that you don't need anyone to validate your obsessions. You don't need to change anyone's mind. You don't need a final showdown with your boss or partner or friend [that you sometimes find yourself fantasizing about]. You don't need revenge to feel safe expressing anger.
• What keeps you trapped in this cycle of fear is that you're SO good at conflict. When you fight you win because you're so good at looking at things from every angle.
• [ANN] What you're trying to figure out is when to fight and when to walk away. What heals you is walking away from a conflict that you can win. [I know it's hard!!] You will never grow when you win because it just keeps fueling the same scarcity under the competition mindset. You grow when you reclaim your own space and nurture your creativity and joy. You grow when you create safety by choosing when to have conflict and when to not.
● NN in Aries gives you the life challenge of exerting your personal will and developing the inner confidence and courage to act in your own self-interest sometimes. Your life journey is discovering "Who am I without you?"
• [LSN] What feels natural to you is pleasing others but with your ANN, what you really desire and where your fulfillment lies is in doing your own thing, according to your own impulses, without being limited by the input of others.
• Although you try to assert yourself you seem to continually give in to others. You need to ask yourself, how can "I act" in my own self interest and still "please you"? Because unfortunately acting in your self-interest fully without caring about others at all, will not make you fulfilled either.
• On the good side though, your Libra South Node can help you to think before acting!!
• [LSN and ANN] This inner tug of war will eventually teach you that indulging in your own wants and desires with no regard for others is just as bad as always putting others first. The challenge of this life's theme is to find a healthy balance between selflessness and selfishness.
• Relationships may be challenging because you [LSN] instinctively gravitate towards friendships, partnerships, lovers, and marriage. But in your need for harmony, you tend to go along with whatever your friend says [especially when young]. Still, there will come a time with the ANN will come to the forefront and you'll rebel, get angry, seek your independence, and go your own way. [I have an ANN and LSN and trust me, I experienced this, and my "rebellion" didn't go well. I would get angry at every little thing because I was suppressing my anger so much before. It just made me more unhappy, and I felt so alone and alienated because nobody understood that I was trying to get my point/needs across, and they weren't listening to my WORDS. It just came across as aggressive I guess; it made me look crazy. So, work on yourself and try to skip this step of the process 😭😭, I don't know if it can be skipped though. There will come a point where you're so tired of being used, or of no one being considerate of you. You need to learn the difference between aggressiveness and assertiveness though, and you also need to learn to walk away from a fight that genuinely has nothing to do with your values. Still, I do notice that I have in fact gone my own way after that, and I now pick and choose my battles which brings me peace and a sense of safety. I'm much happier now, and I'm working towards self-confidence. So it's a part of the process don't worry 😘]
• The secret to successful long-lasting relationships is creating a balance in your life between time doing your own thing and time invested in making your partner or friend happy.
• The irony is once you learn to love and trust yourself enough to confidently "go it alone", you'll draw appropriate people into your life who will support your independence 😊😊❤️
• Steps to freeing yourself from past behavior patterns [LSN]:
1. Recognize you don't need another person's support or approval to exist. You have the right to feel as you feel and to act independently of others.
2. You must recognize you have value before anyone else will. You must also understand that being honest and assertive isn't harmful when done correctly. Once you realize your worth you can begin building healthy selfishness and live an authentic life
3. Detach a bit from your need for harmony in relationships. Learn the difference between aggressiveness and assertiveness. Determine what is or isn't worth fighting for/about.
4. Make your needs known. When you stop catering to everyone else's desires and practice open communication, you free yourself and others [individuals you're close to may not even realize their unconscious part in directing your life]. If you make your needs known correctly, and the person reacts defensively, then that tells you that they aren't good for your path.
5. Write a list of your life values. Then write another list of the values you want your dream friends to have. As well as the values you want your dream partner to have. And make a list for your family as a bonus too. This will help you to discern when to create a conflict and when not to because it makes no sense to cause a fight over something that doesn't even compromise your values. For example, let's say your current friend keeps on lying to you and you wrote that you value friends that value honesty [in your friend list] and that you value honesty in your life values list, then, of course, it makes sense to speak up or end the friendship over it. But let's say your friend hasn't answered your texts and you didn't write anything about that in your values lists, then is it really necessary to cause a conflict over it?
6. Self-discovery is the gift of an Aries NN ❤️❤️
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I hope this helps 🙏 💕. I also have this placement and it was such a step out of my comfort zone when I decided to go down the journey of my NN. I hope that one day I can finally learn to put myself first and discover myself. And honestly, I take such pride in this placement, because it's such a beautiful journey. So ya, if you want to feel more fulfilled and I guess less used, TRY to work towards your Aries North Node. But remember not to become too selfish, balance is key 😊❤️.
Side Note:
Yes, as an Aries North Node, my obsession is astrology LMAO. I'm so scared to talk about it, cause whenever I do I can see them getting bored or zoning out, and it makes me so disappointed. Also, I truly do anticipate the judgment 😭, its such a Libra South Node thing. This is further amplified because I have an Aquarius Chiron in the 3rd House, I'm really not imagining it, people aren't listening 🥲. But ya, I love astrology with my whole heart and I hope that by focusing on myself and my development more, I can attract people who will actually listen. At least there is hope too, since the 3rd House gets better with time, meaning my Chiron will get better with time, phew.
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What Libra south node people tend to think they want is to win. This is because they’re anticipating things to be competitive even when they
The north node in Aries gives you the life challenge of exerting your personal will and developing the inner confidence and courage to act i
