May 29, 2025
I feel like some people on this webbed site forget that it's actually super weird to project your kinks onto a complete stranger without their consent. Like yeah tumblr is really kink-positive but it's still really creepy to comment on someone's selfie or send them an anon message detailing how you want them to enact some super specific kink. You have no idea if that person is into that kink and even if they are, it can make someone extremely uncomfortable coming from some complete random internet stranger.
#honestly this even goes to 'mild' kinks that a lot of tumblr seems to be into#like chastity#telling someone unprompted that you want to put them in a chastity cage#or even reblogging their selfie like 'I wonder what he looks like in a cock cage'#is really weird#even if someone posts revealing selfies they're not an inanimate object to project your kinks onto