The Art of Living in the Unknown
There are always going to be uncertain variables in life. The Human Race, as intelligent and bright as it is, has not figured a theory, a calculation, or an equation that can, with 100% accuracy, determine the outcome of a decision you make. Many times we are afraid of moving forward due to the fear of failure, heartbreak, disappointment and the ultimate fear of never realizing your hopes, dreams, and deepest desires.
Not knowing all the variables of a certain situation in life has always been a tough concept for me to grasp. I’m a problem solver. I’m that person who, if possible, has a Plan C. I like to know ALL my options if one thing fails. This system worked perfectly fine until a couple of months ago. In October, I quit my job and moved to India for four months. I was pretty decent at my job and it would have definitely set my career up for success. However, I had come to the realization that I wasn’t really doing something that was engaging all my strengths and embracing all my passions. Coming to India was my way of venturing into the unknown. This decision, however, came with the cost of not being able to make a Plan C. There were way too many variables I couldn’t account for. Can I tell you a little secret? So far, this trip has been one of the most exciting adventures of my life.
Over the past couple of months, I have realized that having a Plan C or a Plan B for that matter is not always necessary (please note I said “always”). The most important thing about moving forward is to be able to wake up in the morning understanding that failure is not the reason to stop pursuing something. If you fail, try again. If you’re heartbroken, learn to love again. Take an intelligent risk once in a while. There’s a saying, “What doesn’t kill you makes you stronger.” It is here that we can see the concept of evolving unfold in our everyday lives. Responding to the unknown by activating your courage… this is the art of living in the unknown.