*makes jerking off motion*
killups replied to your post “In relation to that poem-”
if I make it to Boston this summer can I punch this coworker in the tit?
You should probably not punch her in the tit. I understand the desire, but APPARENTLY assault is never the answer. Unless we can rope her into a game of hockey, in which case I have been told it’s actually encouraged. Sports are weird. (I OWE YOU AN EMAIL. I’M SORRY I’M THE WORST. I’LL DO THAT BEFORE I PASS OUT.)
trixietricoter replied to your post “In relation to that poem-”
Hugs. Sorry you have to deal with this shit. ❤️
*smish* Thanks. It’s honestly better than it was ten months ago, because I’ve just started disapproving vocally when she says ignorant and hurtful things, regardless of whether they offend me personally. They usually don’t offend me personally. I’m pretty hard to offend. It’s more about me refusing to put up with a world that kept the younger version of myself in hiding for so long. (Also, holy shit, I’ve almost been in Boston a year. I should start planning a party or something.)
omegalovaniac replied to your post “In relation to that poem-”
Talk to HR! I had to do that last month myself. Over girl scout cookies. It was frustrating. But I was heard.
lostntrnslation replied to your post “In relation to that poem-”
If you ever get to the point--you know the one--you can report her to HR. You don't have to put up with this shit at work. And it's not OK for her to make you feel angry/sad/upset on the daily. No place for it in life, work or otherwise.
I am probably not going to talk to HR. Not because I don’t agree with you guys that I probably SHOULD, but because I’m a coward who doesn’t want to have to deal with the aftermath. And also because it’s not wanton and malicious, she’s just an ignorant asshole. I call her on her shit frequently and she tends to apologize. She apparently doesn’t LEARN, but it takes a long time to unlearn bigoted bullshit. I know. I’m still doing it and I’ve been living with the full acceptance of myself for like, ten years now.
Honestly, most days I’m proud of myself for having become the sort of person who would speak up at all. It’s the kind of personal growth that gives me hope for my future. Heh.