Nov 11, 2025
How am I
expected to
know
how to love
when I've never
before experienced
love
in my life?
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How am I
expected to
know
how to love
when I've never
before experienced
love
in my life?
Hey, can you do a tarot regarding this person in my mind. Will we ever reconnect? My initials are C.M, his are M.L.
Yes, you will reconnect. It has been a while and it will be awhile again before you reconnect but you will.
Thank you for your question :)
I think I love you.Or getting there...but I wonder about you...do you love me?
what if I became an ordinary simple girl. would you love me then?
Thank you for taking out the time to respond to my Q. It was immensely helpful. I will continue to work on myself for the time being. Love and hugs. -autie
Glad to be of help! I know you've got this. Much love. x I edited the answer to add a point I thought was important. I'm posting it here so you don't have to go look for it again. If this guy really is the one and you guys decide to try again, he'll have to meet you at your best and then make it work. This way you ensure he cleans up his act for real before you even think of giving him another chance. When you're the best version of yourself, you'll refuse to accept toxic people in your life and you'll have stronger boundaries. So all the energy vampires will begin to fade away naturally.
Why did 5 people like my Q? I’m stressed now, lol. How do I get over this guy,CC. I blocked them a week back,did cord cutting. But I’m stuck. He has caused a lot of realisations. About my own toxic patterns. I assumed he was a lesson. And soon I’ll forget. Cards say he is the one,be patient. But I’m getting old.Women do not have the liberty to stay unmarried for long,not in my family. And any relation takes time,I don’t have time. I’ve this feeling he’ll stay in my mind for long time. - autie
Hi,
Don't worry about the interest of people - it's a good thing! I'm sure your story can help them in their own life in some way.
With regard to your fellow, I suppose the most important thing is how you feel about him and your relationship now. Do you feel like you've moved on, or do you feel like your logical mind thinks you should move on, but your emotional side is still attached? If you're still emotionally attached and want to break free from that, I think orienting your thoughts toward moving forward and then working on that would help. Actively working on self-improvement is a great way to distract oneself from a past hurt, I find. Give yourself the energy you couldn't give when in a difficult relationship.
As for whether he is meant to be the one or not - who knows what will happen in the future. Maybe he will, maybe he won't. But right now you feel like he's shouldn't be the one for your own good, so that's what's important for now.
Don't worry about your age. Society says we're supposed to tick some boxes within a certain time-frame. Sure, there's good reason for that sometimes. But it's not the only way to do it. It's much more important that it's the right time for you, and it's achieved in the right way for you.
There's people who have finished higher studies in their 40s and 50s, married in middle age or past 60, or had babies and married as teenagers.
If you believe in the spiritual realm, you'll know that there is a theory that we choose the blueprint of our incarnated life, including the timing of certain events. Trust in that process if you're spiritually inclined.
In the meantime, do the one thing that is in your power - taking care of, and improving yourself. Join that hobby class, buddy up with someone to go for runs, call those friends you haven't spoken to in a while, apply for the job you've always wanted but haven't got around to it. Soon you'll be like, "ex-bf who?"
If this guy really is the one and you guys decide to try again, he'll have to meet you at your best and then make it work. This way you ensure he cleans up his act for real before you even think of giving him another chance. When you're the best version of yourself, you'll refuse to accept any more toxic people in your life and you'll have stronger boundaries. So all the energy vampires will begin to fade away naturally.
Best of luck autie. You've got this. x
Please... Tell me do you... Love me?