#lovefession16

[confessingadventuretime]

You're like a therapist, but with Adventure Time. I like it.

I really give horrible advice and no one should ever take me seriously. It’s very therapeutic to just rant about love and sex and our failed attempts at being honest.

–♥Admin Lindy

I am so not experienced in love enough to give advice about it. I have no idea if the advice I give is even good. I’m just doin my best to help folks out. But yeah like Lindy said, it’s nice to rant.

-🌈Admin Sandeep

[confessingadventuretime]

So three years ago I meet this girl on DeviantART. She was kind, caring, and inspiring. We got to know each other personally and we have a lot in common.(Even though we haven't met in person yet.) I think of her everyday, and even though there are girls IRL that I could talk to, I think of her instead. She doesn't return my feelings, but I still love her, and we're still really close friends despite the long-distance. There's no other girl like her. (I'm so hopelessly in love with her. lol)

I swear this is such a 21st century problem. What was the equivalent of this in the olden days? Dialing the wrong number and a cute girl picking up? Accidentally intercepting someone’s love letters and falling for them?

It’s so much easier to fall for someone’s words on a screen. You both have time to say exactly what you want. I’m a words person. I fall for words when I should fall for actions.

Love is like taking your batteries out and hoping you’ll land on the new ones

–♥Admin Lindy

Is there any way for you guys to actually meet in person? I mean in a way that would totally be not creepy, casual, and fun? It seems like you’re pretty into this girl. But be careful not to pursue someone too hardcore, because at the end of the day people are people. But whew, that’s rough buddy.

Also, I too once met someone who was involved with DeviantART. We talked a lot until one day we stopped, or really I stopped. I’ve been trying to get back into contact, but yeah it’s not working.

-🌈Admin Sandeep

[confessingadventuretime]

In past relationships I'd always get bored of the person and "fall out of love". I would be overly romantic/committed at first only to ultimately be disappointed, the feelings never mutual. It was like I would have an emotional high creating a temporary lapse in judgement, and once it faded I just didn't and couldn't like them anymore (and I'd feel embarrassed). Now I'm afraid to even begin to like someone, nor do I have the patience to get to know someone, especially if it might end in failure.

Wow that rings true to my life. I’m sick and tired of people who won’t give the world to see me smile. It’s like, I put in so much effort and they’re just apathetic. That’s not ok. The sparks aren’t there forever and that’s why commitment is so important. I want somebody to choose me over and over again, even when they’re mad or bored or being stupid.

It’s really hard to find those people because nobody is open with their emotions for fear of getting hurt. You need to find someone who is mature enough to risk their heart with you. And that’s reason #1 why I’m single by choice right now.

--♥Admin Lindy

[confessingadventuretime]

My boyfriend and I have been together for nearly 4 years. We met in college and I just moved back home. We're trying the whole long distance thing, but it sucks not seeing him every day (we lived together last year). Any advice?

Long distance sucks. A lot of my relationships have been strained because of distance. Also, I suck with keeping in touch. I say, just try your ultimate hardest to actually keep in touch. Text, call, facetime, skype, write letters, do whatever. I know these things can’t make up for your boyfriend not being physically there, but at the very least, you both can be in each other’s lives. Love overcomes obstacles and all that jazz.

-🌈Admin Sandeep

[confessingadventuretime]

I've been on and off with a guy for just over 4 years now. He's chased me -not in the literal sense-several times and we've broken up 3 times already (all by him), our last stretch almost reaching 2 years. It's been 4 months since we broke up but 3 weeks ago he told me he would like to be with me again...I love him and I care too much to cut him out of my life, but I can't help feeling he's "settling" for me because he can't get with the person he truly desires. Overthinking sucks ass.

Yes, yes it does. And okay, it seems like he’s calling all the terms of relationship when it comes to starting and ending it. If you ask me he’s just stringing you along until he can find something he feels is “better”. So, I do think you’re right in your hunch. I think you should try your very best to drop his ass, because it doesn’t seem like he’s respecting you as a person. He’s not being nice. Best of luck.

-🌈Admin Sandeep

[confessingadventuretime]

I NEED TO LEARN SELF LOVE!

That’s a lesson we all gotta learn.

-🌈Admin Sandeep

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--♥Admin Lindy

[confessingadventuretime]

So I'm asking this anonymously because the girl I'll be talking about follows me on tumblr and I her. So we're both Juniors in high school and I met her at the beginning of freshman year. I've had a crush on her since but we've become good friends. I've told her before that I liked her that way, but she never responded to it and we haven't brought it up again. It's all be easier if she didn't have a boyfriend in a completely different state thousands of miles away. I want her to know how I feel.

How did you tell her? If she never responded to it, then I get the feeling it might have been over social media, which isn’t the most ideal way, but it’s ok I’ve done it over text before. *cringe*

I’ve been in too many passive relationships. If somebody’s not actively going out of their way to metaphorically move mountains for you, then they don’t want to. Actions speak louder than words. I’m somebody who forgets that. If she didn’t jump at the chance to be with you, then she’s not interested. Did you get one of those awful read receipts?

--♥Admin Lindy

[confessingadventuretime]

24 y/o virgin again. Lindy, you can relax. I laughed at your Christian Mingle comment. Thanks for the advice, anyway.

Nobody ever told me that friend groups don’t make fun of each other like they do in sitcoms and that’s why I have no friends irl. Sometimes I can be too harsh.

--♥Admin Lindy