*WARNING: RANT*
I really don't get some women who stay with shitty men. II have this friend and she has a little girl who I adore to pieces I mean before I had Mia I would look after her for days on end or babysit her and take her to loads of places like the seaside or to the parks. Anyway, her mother is a friend of mine. We've been friends for about 9years or so but only in the past 3years have been a little closer. Since then she has a few short term relationships but the thing is it's a new relationship, different guys but they all have the same shitty traits. y'know, aggressive, no jobs, nothing going on in their lives just guys I wouldn't even look twice at.
Currently she is with this guy who is a good few years younger than her and not only that this guy is so fucking aggressive shouting and carrying on. He doesn't even have some basic manners to calm his behavior around guests. Countless times I've told this girl to leave him because he is no good and if she doesn't leave him it is going to end real real bad. Earlier he kicked off again and when I speak to her I tell her to think about her little girl. Is this what you want her to grow up around? Is this what you want from your life? she says I'm right (as she normally says) 20minutes later she says shes going to the shop. Then she comes back, and look whos crawling behind her?
Ugh ! It's like to talking to a brick wall...Actuallyy I think a brick wall has more sense than that. Some girls. I know its hard to leave someone and all that jazz but seriously when you have a kid shit ain't an option no more.
Sorry had to brush this one off my shoulders.
