I got a heat synastry report from Lilith and I must say that she is very attentive to details and pointed out things I didn’t pay attention to before, although I am well versed in astrology. I think Lilith is hardworking and loves what she does and you can tell from how she writes how excited she is about doing the reading. I also love the fact that I received a PERMANENT 30% discount on future readings! Only note is that maybe I wanted it to be spicier and go more into what people want in bed and so on but maybe that's because I'm naughty and have 8th house synastry with the guy so yeah !
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For those who are not familiar with astrology: a birth chart shows the position of all the planets at the time of someone's birth and this is understood as a blueprint for that person's life and character. When you compare the birth charts of two people, this is known as a synastry chart or relationship chart and is used to understand compatibility.
A note on the generational planets
The outer planets (Saturn ♄, Uranus ♅, Neptune ♆, Pluto ♇) are known as the 'generational planets' because everyone born within a few years of each other has them in the same sign.
For example, everyone born from 1984 to 1995 has Pluto in Scorpio ♏︎ . These are late millenials, defined by growing up through the rapid transformative effects of the internet. Gen Z, born 1996 to 2008, have Pluto in Sagittarius ♐︎ and are concerned with freedom of expression and group identities.
I'm not going to discuss these planets much more because they are generic. We know Nico and Gabi are born in different generations.
Harmonious aspects
The thing that is immediately striking when you look at Gabriel and Nico's charts is that Gabriel has 5 out of 6 of his personal planets in Libra ♎︎. Nico has 4 out of 6 of his personal planets in Leo ♌︎.
The personal planets, by the way, are Sun ⨀, Moon ☾, Mercury ☿, Venus ♀, Mars ♂ and Jupiter ♃.
Leo and Libra are at a 60° angle from each other on the zodiac wheel, called a sextile ⚹. It's a fundamentally harmonious aspect. Sextiles show where they connect easily and where there is little friction between them.
I mean, look at this!
No wonder they instantly got on like a house on fire.
Almost all of these planets have a sextile or trine relationship with each other. Trines △ means that two signs are 120° from each other and are even more positive than sextiles.
Their Moons ☾ have a trine relationship, indicating a strong emotional bond.
Nico's Mars ♂ (representing sex, passion, physical activity) has the exact same degree (27'49°) as Gabriel's Mercury ☿ (communication, intellect). Gabi understands Nico very well on a physical level; Nico is encouraged to improve himself through competition with Gabi.
Difficult aspects
Oppositions ☍ (180°) and squares □ (90°) indicate where there is tension in the relationship.
The most relevant ones here are to do with Jupiter and Moon.
Nico's Jupiter in Aries ♈︎ represents a detached, individualistic and straightforward way of interacting with the wider world and topics like spirituality. This opposes Gabi's Moon in Libra ♎︎, which is social, sentimental and indulgent.
Personally I think this has to do with the fact that Gabriel is religious and that his religion is deeply connected with his home and family sphere. Nico, I imagine, isn't religious at all.
Similarly, Gabi's Jupiter in Libra ♎︎ has tension with Nico's Moon in Cancer ♋︎. Gabi is more comfortable being on social media, interacting with other drivers/celebrities and connecting with the fanbase. Nico's instinct is to protect his private life and put up walls between his home sphere and the outside world.
The closest/strongest opposition in the chart is between Nico's north node (future experience) and Gabriel's Jupiter in Libra. Seems to me like the age gap problem is showing up here. Gabi's Jupiter (expansion/growth) is sitting on Nico's south node (past life); i.e. he is expanding into an area of life that Nico is finished with. Nico's future is somewhere else.
Closing remarks
I hope this was entertaining and not too complicated. Astrology is for fun, imo, and I'm not claiming to know everything about Nico and Gabi from the stars. Having said that, it's quite cool to find patterns and correlations between these charts and real life.
Heyyy🩵💙💕what does it mean to have a mans Scorpio Venus in my 1st house ,, his cancer mars falls into my 9th house conjunct my Venus ,, his Virgo Jupiter in my 11th house conjunct my Jupiter Virgo ,, and his sun moon and mercury Libra fall in my 12th house , and his sun moon and Jupiter square my Lilith 🫠???! <3
Heyyy 💙🩵💕 this synastry comes across as VERY emotionally consuming, intimate, confusing, and addictive all at once ✨🖤
His Scorpio Venus falling into your 1st house usually creates very strong attraction immediately. The Venus person often becomes extremely drawn to the way the 1st house person looks, moves, expresses themselves, or even just exists physically. Scorpio Venus especially tends to intensify attachment, emotional fixation, jealousy, or obsession VERY fast.
His Cancer Mars conjunct your Venus can create a lot of emotional chemistry too because there’s both attraction and emotional softness there at the same time. This aspect usually makes physical affection, emotional attachment, and emotional vulnerability become very emotionally charged.
The Jupiter conjunction in Virgo in the 11th house comes across much softer and sweeter 🥹🌙 it usually creates emotional support, friendship, comfort, encouragement, and the ability to genuinely enjoy each other’s presence beyond just attraction.
But his Sun, Moon, and Mercury falling into your 12th house is probably one of the strongest energies here psychologically. 12th house overlays can make a connection become strangely intuitive, consuming, spiritual, emotionally confusing, or impossible to fully explain logically. Many people with heavy 12th house synastry think about each other constantly without fully understanding why, or remain emotionally affected by each other even in silence.
And his Sun, Moon, and Jupiter squaring your Lilith can create VERY intense attraction, fascination, projection, temptation, emotional triggering, and obsession too. Lilith aspects tend to activate people very deeply psychologically, especially in close relationships 🖤
This connection will be likely to stay emotionally stuck in your head for a VERY long time, no matter what happens between you two 💫
Some connections don’t just attract you emotionally.
They slowly get inside your head, your attachment patterns, your emotional reactions, your nervous system.
That’s precisely the kind of relationship dynamics I explore in my "Synastry – Reading" 🖤✨
hey I have a question I don't know if it's too much for an ask tho, what if you have sun square sun in synastry but his moon conjunct your sun? I feel like sun square sun is such a bummer but trying to believe that this conjunction could be a saving grace but not sure and it makes me worried because his sun squares other personal planets as well 😩
Sun square sun, moon conjunct Sun (Synastry)
While it's true that squaring Suns can feel like you're both constantly stepping on each other's toes or just having totally different vibes on how to be 🙄 that moon-sun conjunction is literally carrying the entire relationship on its back
His Moon sitting right on your Sun is top-tier synastry tea. Even when your egos are clashing because of those squares, his soul (mama moon) feels incredibly safe and at home with your essence (the sun). It creates this deep instinctual bond that makes the friction worth it.
Now, being real with you if his sun is squaring your other personal planets too, there's definitely going to be some heat. He probably challenges you in ways that feel a bit frustrating or like he is poking at your ego but that mmoon-sun conjunction acts like the glue. It's the reason you don't just walk away when things get annoying. You guys have a built in understanding of each other's needs that a lot of couples with "perfect" Sun aspects actually lack.
So don't let the squares scare you off! Just know that you'll have to put in more work on the communication side to make sure those ego rubs don't turn into full blown drama. You have got the emotional foundation to handle it so just lean into that moon-sun connection when things feel rocky 🌻 and if you're interested I'm running a special birthday offer ending on the 4th of May, every reading you book comes with a free Persona Chart of your choice.
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One synastry aspect interpretation that I am very happy with
I did a synastry chart reading last week. There is one aspect interpreted that all three of us really liked. I may have peaked then and there. Aspect being person B's Saturn in Pisces sits in 7th house for both people, and it conjuncts person A's DSC within 1°.
These two charts are very special: their ASC/MC axes are so close that both axes align with the other person's within 5° in the same signs. I was instantly intrigued the second I got the chart.
I usually allow a 2° orb, but they have so many aspects so I had to trim the aspects down to within 1°. Still, 1 trine, 2 sextile, 1 oppose, and 1 square remain.
The third thing that was very interesting was the, B had 2 planets almost sitting right on A's DSC and IC.
It was so interesting that I literally spent the entire day trying to read that chart.
Here is the interpretation I did for them:
Both people crave deep and true connection with others. B should have more success in materialising long term or stable relationship because B has Saturn in 7th house while A's is empty.
B probably is the one who reaches out (even they may not have initiated your friendship) and shows A how "connection" can be done, especially the dissolving and re-establishment of boundaries can evolve in a gradual and effective but gentle way almost like a teacher or mentor. (in the most ideal scenario).
B intently chose them to do this. Or at least the intent is there to keep A for a long time. And B inspires A in this regard.
The feedback I got from them sent me straight over the fucking moon. So here we are, a little something about how Pisces Saturn in 7th house can act like. In the ideal scenario, it takes the edge off Saturn's mentoring, while maintaining a solid boundary(in terms of personal and private relationship since it's in 7th house in this case), but it isn't unmoving. The boundary evolves almost organically and actually help people achieve that deep level bounding they crave.
A Saturn lesson delivered in a Pisces way from 7th house.
