#lowkeyranting

[cocoabutterdelight]

LOL at those jackasses who claim they want honesty 100% of the time

The same assholes who wont tell their little brother theyre adopted, or dont like to be told theyre too sensitive, or act like they dont want to be coddled...but you want honesty...the fuck..

[cocoabutterdelight]

PSA

The insecurities of other people are NOT your responsibility. If a person is lashing out at you for displaying certain emotions or behaviors that aren’t physically or verbally abusive, you are NOT required to apologize for it. If a person feels some kind of way towards you for merely existing in the same space but not for saying or doing anything offensive, you are NOT required to apologize for it. 

You have every right to respectfully remind that insecure human being that you nor is anyone else responsible for taking the blame for their short comings. It’s 100% OK to have insecurities and to be sensitive HOWEVER. If an individual is allowing their insecurities to run their lives to the point of ruining relationships thats something THEY need to fix. If they expect others in their surroundings to move heaven and earth to make them comfortable without an ounce of effort to overcome their insecurities that now becomes a THEM problem. 

It’s one thing to admit you’re insecure, its a brave thing to do. Quite noble in fact. It’s another animal when you have to wise up and find the gumption to overcome your insecurities in order to grow and evolve as a human being.