This is a masterlist of possible connections you can have between two characters. I've been meaning to make this masterlist for a while and over time I'll be adding to it.
f a m i l y
Siblings –
Hate each other
Have a good friendship
Separated when young
Best friends with each other
Step-siblings –
Hated each other pre-siblingship and now have to deal with each other
Dated before they became step-siblings
Best friends
Half-siblings –
Polar opposites and don’t get on
Hate each other
Very close, people assume they're real siblings
Foster siblings –
An "I'm better than you because they're my biological parents" sort of thing
Two foster children from the same home with a close bond
Cousins –
Very close, like best friends
Rivalry
Aunt/uncle and niece/nephew –
Close, like a parent/child closeness
The aunt/uncle could have looked after their niece/nephew for some reason
s o c i a l
Best friends –
From different social circles
Since a young age
Opposites
Friends with benefits –
One has feelings for the other
It's a completely mutual thing
Love/hate friendship
Rivalry –
Because of rival parents
Due to bad experiences with each other in the past
Considering I've been kind of obsessed with Vampire Weekend recently, I've decided to create a masterlist of lyrics from their album "Modern Vampires of the City." Enjoy!
Obvious Bicycle
No one's gonna spare the time for you
Thinking of you and wondering if anyone else could begin
The early day still flickers in your eyes
Unbelievers
Got a little soul
Who's gonna save a little warmth for me?
Want a little grace but who's going to say a little grace for me?
Is this the fate half of the world has planned for me?
I know I love you, and you love the sea
Who's gonna save a little light for me?
Step
I can't do it alone
The truth is she doesn't need me to protect her
You cursed the sun
Diane Young
Out of control but you're playing a role
Try go it alone on your own for a bit
Nobody knows what the future holds
It's bad enough just getting old
Live my life in self-defence
You know I love the past
You got the luck of a Kennedy
Don't Lie
Young bloods can't be settling down
There's a lifetime right in front of you
Cause the fire can't last and the winter's cold
Hannah Hunt
Hidden eyes could see what I was thinking
You and me, we got our own sense of time
There's no future, there's no answer
Everlasting Arms
Leave me to myself
I was made to live without you
I'm never gonna understand
Hold me in your everlasting arms
Don't leave me in myself
You'd be frightened by the open hand
Finger Back
Spend time behind the line
Everybody wants you, but baby you're mine
I know that I've been wicked and the road to hell is wide
You're not anybody's fool
Worship You
Calling for misery to always be explained
We worshipped you
Who will guide us through the end?
Ya Hey
Oh, you saint
I can't help but feel that I've made some mistake
The faithless they don't love you
Who could ever live that way?
Hudson
I declined to try and comprehend
All who changed your stripes can wrap me in the flag
While I completely understand everyone has triggers that are specific to them, this is a masterlist of triggers I think most people are, or should be, aware of. Every trigger is important, every single one, but these are ones I’ve seen people most affected by. Under the cut I’ve got a small list of triggers and what I mean by them. Due to the nature of this post, it may be triggering to some people.
What is a trigger?
Trigger: Tr - i - g - er A topic, phrase or word that emotionally sets someone off. Could refer to anger, or reliving a traumatic experience.
Some common triggers.
Self harm – Anything that suggests any type of self-inflicted injury should be tagged with this.
Eating disorders – There are many different eating disorders and you should tag them specifically to the disorder the post is relevant to, but if you’re unsure then you can just tag it under the general bracket of ‘eating disorders.’
Rape/Sexual Assault – Anything that suggests sexual violence, attacks or even anything about these topics should be tagged. Even if it is a post saying about how awful rape is, it should still be tagged because even the very word can trigger people.
Blood – Some people have a genuine fear of blood and it can make them really ill. If your post has blood in it- tag it.
Abuse – Whether it is emotional, physical, verbal, or even cyber it should be tagged. While you should try and tag it with the specific type of abuse that it is, you can still tag it under the general bracket of abuse.
Homophobia – Anything that is remotely homophobic should be tagged. Even if you’re in character and your character is making a homophobic slur, tag it.
Racism – Like homophobia, anything that is even slightly racists should be tagged, along with in character slurs.
Guns – When tagging guns you should also try and tag the way they are being used, for example in a school shooting.
Religion – Any derogatory terms about religion should be tagged.
Bullying – Even ‘funny’ videos about that one kid beating up the bully should be tagged.
Mental illness – Anything that suggests someone/something to do with a mental health disorder should be tagged.
Depression - Some would say this falls under the mental illness category, but this should always be tagged on it's own.
Anxiety - Like depression, it could fall under other categories, but it's best to tag it on it's own.
Cancer – With so many people being affected by cancer it should be tagged even if it is a post saying about how awful cancer is.
Food – This is a ‘controversial’ tag. You may not want to trigger-warning tag it, but you should tag it with some sort of food tag.
Violence – Posts promoting/degrading violence should be.
Death – Discussing death or posts about death should be tagged.
Epilepsy – Posts with a lot of flashing images should be taged with this.
Suicide – Anything that suggests the taking of ones life should be tagged with this.
How should I make a trigger known?
And the best way to do that is to do either to tag
tw: and the trigger, or trigger warning – the trigger.
Or to make a small part of the post that says the post may be triggering.
If think any triggers should be added to this list, just let me know.
This is just a masterlist of my 60 favourite male first names.
Please like or reblog if you found this useful.
Aiden
Andrew
Axel
Benjamin (Ben)
Blake
Brayden
Caleb
Cameron
Christopher
Cole
Colin
Dean
Elijah
Elliot
Emmett
Eryk (and all it's variations)
Ethan
Evan
Finn
Freddie
Gabriel
Greyson
Hunter
Ian
Jace
Jacob
Jared
Joel
Joseph
Kai
Kane
Kayden (and all it's variations)
Kyle
Levi
Logan
Mason
Max
Michael
Nathan
Nico
Noah
Nolan
Oliver
Oscar
Parker
Ryan
Ryker
Samuel
Sean
Seth
Shane
Tanner
Thomas
Tristan
Wesley
William
Xavier
Zander