i’ve only met two actual millionaires off of seeking arrangement and it was back when i first hopped into the sugar bowl (like 3 years ago) and i was so under experienced at the time. I think about how different those situations would’ve turned out all the time had i known what i know today.
Researching using google, youtube, books, veteran baby mentors, etc. will help you immensely in this lifestyle but the best way to feel comfortable, gain insight and learn what type of sugar baby you are or what kind you want to be is by just doing it.
Tips for getting started (Going to keep this list short and simple because there are endless tips for this lifestyle) :
Don’t be afraid to go freestyling, you’ll meet actual affluent men in real life
Use the first few dates as a dry run to practice and perfect your conversational skills, facial expressions, your smize, tone, how you address other people in the room, and to become more relaxed in the presence of affluent men. This really helps if you aren’t attracted to him or have no plans on pursuing anything long term with him.
Never act too impressed. He’s to impress you.
Update your wardrobe often
Natural subtle looking makeup is key
Keep your nails done. Men love that
Never be too available unless he’s paying for your time.
Just as you are vetting him, he is vetting you and will do so subliminally; Never let your guard down, stay 6 steps ahead of him
Always use language that implies you are pampered and used to the affluent lifestyle; If he asks how was your day, “Oh quiet busy. I planned to visit (insert spa name here) after my run but my (insert luxury brand name item here) arrived in the mail earlier then expected so i went for lunch with my friends to take it out for a spin, lol.” he may want to buy you something to accommodate the item.
Never seem dependent on him.
Research his likes and make conversation based off that.
Never give away too much information about yourself.
Do not be afraid to make mistakes
Always smile and do not complain unless you will get something out of it, and even then be careful with how much you complain. If you show you are a happy fun loving gal, he will always want to be around you and do things to keep you happy.
Have standards, keep them, do not lower them for any man.
If you’ve been at home eating cheetos all day, do not tell him that. Lie and go back to using language and stories to imply you’re pampering yourself lavishly (even if it’s just a nice bubble bath with music)
If you’re having a bad day, tell him if you know he’ll buy you something to cheer you up. If you’re not sure he would, tell him youre in need of a few hours to yourself for self meditation and reflection. Men love women that can take care of themselves.
Read, read, READ!!! Great books to start: Art of Seduction, The Laws of Human Nature, The 48 Laws of Power, Blink, The Power of Habit, and my personal fave fiction novel, Ten Ways to Be Adored When Landing a Lord.
Do not tell him you can bring value and substance into his life, show him.
Do not be afraid to ask for what you want.
Do not give up your cookie. Hold off for as long as you can, try to rinse him dry without even giving it.
Last but not least, most women are in this for the long haul; Hypergamy. To eventually marry their affluent suitor. If you are, do not allow him to perceive you as a sugar baby, but a classy pampered woman who is no stranger to the affluent lifestyle.
