lydiamarts replied to your post “This is a long post and it's important for me. Sorry.”
i feel you so much, as being part of a family who makes me feel like crap everyday. i know it sounds ridiculous but don't be sad, even tho i get that you're angry. i would react the same, even worse probably. i really hope you feel better soon. <3
Ugh, I am so so sorry to hear that :( I am hugging you really tight in my mind, okay? Because that's just...it's fucking shit. >___________<
I mean, I am just glad I don't have to see her that often but there are so many things that I can remember her saying to me in the past that upset me a lot. Not just about my body but about my voice, about my personality, about my intelligent. Everything. She's awful to me and my mother and the only reason for that is that when my (step)dad married my mum I was already there and I am not her son's daughter. She still isn't over that fact and it's been like 15 years for god's sake.
sirthorin replied to your post “This is a long post and it's important for me. Sorry.”
Pls dont let this drag you down! It's AWESOME that you're comfortable with your body, dont let that be ruined. Its kinda funny because I have the literal same issue with my grandma, except Im really overweight, so I know the feeling. Im sorry!♥
It doesn't even matter if a person is overweight or not, if a person says they feel comfortable in their body then that's it. Discussion over. There is no point to dicuss over how a person should feel about their body. They decide that for themselves and noone else has the right to tell them otherwise. I just...ugh. It's rude and an awful thing to do.
I am sorry you have to go through that stuff, too. Nobody deserves that and I hate that we have to deal with this. It's awful and ridiculous too. There's so much more important things than discussing weight, for real now.
Thank you both for your nice words and concerns. <3 It's good to know that I am not the only one feeling like she overstepped a line.