lyssawrotethat replied to your post “so uh you ever worry people won’t think you’re “bi enough” because...”
Not only do I worry I'm not "bi enough", I worry I'm not "ace enough" because I write explicit sex scenes in my fic.
ugh i have friends who have been there. you could write the dirtiest smut this side of the dark web and you’d STILL be ace enough
commander-diomika replied to your post “so uh you ever worry people won’t think you’re “bi enough” because...”
Nah but like as a bi person when im reading m/f ships written by a bi person they're so much better than when they're from/for a straight lense, and like! As an AFAB who has lots of fulfilling relationships with men and AMABs I LIKE reading m/f but God not when it's by the straights
So you keep doing you, everything you write is gonna be bi because you're bi.
yeah there’s definitely a huge difference in focus from a lot of fic writers. i read a fic just the other day that SCREAMED “this was written by a straight woman who is down with gender roles as fun plot devices” and made me want to die. i also make it a point to make one or both of the partners in my m/f fics bi (cough holden and naomi cough) to remind people that no matter who you’re currently banging you are uh... still bi and the relationship isn’t “straight”. that and i can focus on intimacy and tearing up toxic masculinity with these characters
