#madmanmadeofstraw

[dirtydestiel]

Okay lets do this thing. Always post the rules Answer the questions and make eleven new ones Tag ten new people Let them know you tagged them I was tagged by Deanthecutiepie (thanks so much btws)!

1. What is your all-time, ultimate otp (from any fandom)? Damn. Uhh probably Cecilos (from WTNV).

2. Do you have any posters in your room? What are they? I have a hunger games poster! (I need more posters)

3. What’s your favorite reaction gif/image? I’m on mobile (computer isn’t working) so I can’t really show it /: sorry 4. If you had only 200 dollars (or equivalent), what would you do with the money? Either cosplay or items from a convention

5. Imagine you are stuck on an island that is the perfect representation of your mind and thoughts. What does it look like?

Well, pastel pinks, blues, and purples would be the colour scheme. There would probably be music from Animal crossing playing in the background and all my fav actors from my fav shows would be there! (And I would have a MacBook Air)

6. What’s your favorite joke? damn idk

7. Do you ship Johnlock? If yes, how do you imagine their first kiss happening? If no, start shipping it how do you imagine the next few years of their lives going? I ship them, but I’ve never put much thought into the kiss. Ummm honestly I feel like it would be a cute type of awkward.

8. What do you want to pursue in your life? Honestly I just want to have watched all the shows on my list (31 shows on my to watch list ATM) but career wise, I want to be one of the people at Disneyland/disney world/disney anything who dress and act like the characters

9. What’s something you’ve always wanted to mention about yourself but never had a reason to? My mom named me after Jensen Ackles bless her soul

10. What’s your favorite quote? Hollywood is a place where they'll pay you a thousand dollars for a kiss and fifty cents for your soul -Marilyn Monroe

11. What is your ideal date? Pizza and netflix

12. Describe yourself in 3 words. Funny, socially awkward, and strange

13. Who was your main celeb crush when you were like 10? I didn’t have one. But I felt left out, so I pretended to have a celeb crush on the Jonas bros

14. If you could go into any universe from any book or movie or whatever, what would it be? (for example: narnia). Wonderland (Alice in wonderland duh)

15. What’s something you’re embarrased about that you did in junior high? I got caught stealing candy from my teacher oops

16. Do you have any NOTPs? Marius and cosette from Les Mis

17. What’s your favorite picture of Misha Collins? All of them (I can’t put any pics on cause mobile ugh)

18. What are your biggest fears? dENTISTS and bees

19. What character from anything do you relate to a lot? Codex from The Guild (go look it up its a good web series)

20. what’s the best halloween costume you’ve worn? My Carrie costume

21. What is the most recent movie you watched? Dr horribles sing along blog

22. Favorite Villain? Dr Horrible (or billy buddy goddammit lets not bring this movie into my brain please)

New questions! 1. Any fandoms you don’t understand?

2. Fave fandom? (or fandom you're most involved in)

3. Biggest accomplishment

4. Would you ever cosplay in public?

5. What song can you listen to 1000 times over again and never get tired of it?

6. What's your fave book?

7. Most cringe-worthy memory\

8. Cookie dough or cake batter?

9. Are you currently procrastinating?

10. What's the most out of the ordinary/strange fandom you're involved in?

11. Have you ever went through a "phase"? if so, what was the worst phase

[afghanmenace]

madmanmadeofstraw replied to your post : Harry Potter and Albus Dumbledore Sherlock Holmes and Mrs. Hudson am I close with the first two

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I am laughing so hard I just KNEW someone would interpret HP+AD as Harry and Dumbledore But it's not that. It's an obscure ship.

And you were close on the second. It's actually Sherlock and Molly.

[archeogeist]

Hey! I'm not trying to be ignorant or anything but I've been struggling a lot with understanding bisexuality. Why wouldn't you just call yourself pan if you meant all genders?

Really, because of the accepted definition of bisexuality, that being someone who is attracted to the same and other genders, I feel like I fit there. In addition, I personally feel like I connect more with the bisexual community.

The general difference that I’ve noticed is that physical appearance/how gender is presented matters less to a pansexal. I’m not saying that it doesn’t matter at all to a pansexual, it just matters less. Pansexuals tend to be more attracted to personality than physical appearance. Pan people tend to say that they are attracted to people, regardless of what that person’s gender is.

Whereas I, personally, am way more attracted to how people look. Of course I could never have a relationship based solely on how someone looks. How someone looks is more of a prerequisite for attraction as a whole to me. I’ve noticed that a lot of bisexual people feel the same.

And honestly, I don’t mean all genders. the definition is the same AND OTHER genders, not necessarily all. Pansexual does definitely mean all genders. This is a reminder that that does not make bisexual people trans*phobic. 

I, again, personally, am mostly attracted to men, trans* or cis, and NB people. However, I totally find women, trans* or otherwise, very attractive. I’ve had relationships with women, and I can foresee myself having a relationship with a non-binary member of society. (I, myself, identify as gender fluid leaning female and androgynous.)

TL;DR: The accepted definition of bisexuality by the bisexual community is: feeling attraction to the same and other genders. NOT: attraction to only cis men and women.

The accepted definition of pansexuality by the pansexual community is: attraction regardless of gender.