Nov 1, 2014
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maedhrys answered your question:hi how do we feel about the new theme
theme is good but new url is B E S T
eep okay yay!!!! <3
maedhrys replied to your post “stillwaitingforaliens replied to your post:maedhrys replied to your...”
so make it less about correcting and more about understanding? take your time, see if it's about fear. if it is, work through the fear. you won't be correcting the orientation, because it's not bad, but it might happen to change in the process.
Okay. Yes. Good advice. Thank you.
*plomps head down on bed* ugh how great would it be if I could just be in a romantic relationship with someone without having to go through all this soul-searching crap to figure out if I'm capable of that.
maedhrys replied to your post:excessively-english-little-b replied to your...
actually most therapists that I know of are PRETTY STRONGLY AGAINST exposure therapy in almost all situations.
Really? Because it's how I overcame OCD (exposure and response prevention, to be specific.) All the books I read said it's the most widely accepted treatment method. And it worked well for me. Interesting.
maedhrys replied to your post:[[MOR] My therapist is convinced that I’m not...
but from what I’ve read, if the label helps you now, it’s good to use it? even if you phase out of it later, that doesn’t mean it’s not valid now. people can change, and having a cause doesn’t mean the thing isn’t there.
idk, I feel like labeling a symptom of a disease as a romantic orientation is offensive to people who actually have that orientation? Plus, if I really am just *afraid* of romantic relationships (which I don't think I am but who the heck knows), then I should be trying to conquer my fear rather than just shrugging and saying, yeah, that's how I am now. Especially since, if I am capable of romantic attraction, I would want to try to have a relationship.
Apparently Augustine dedicated a whole chapter of City of God to whether we get our clipped-off fingernails back in the Resurrection. I am not remotely surprised.
maedhrys replied to your post “THE MTV UNPLUGGED DOWNLOAD ON THAT WALK THE MOON MASTERPOST HAS A...”
I keep forgetting that "I cannot believe" is your textpost tag for wtm and reading it as a continuation of the post / tags and idk why I'm telling you this but. now you know. sometimes it's funny.
omg. that's cute?? i do sometimes wonder if people think that like esp. with my bastille textpost tag which is "i never wanted this" like sometimes i'll post about them playing huGE venues and then i tag it with that and then i jUST HOPE PEOPLE DON'T THINK I'M SAD ABOUT THEM MAKING IT BIG lol
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I love vibrancy! Be that in colour, or in personality, vibrancy is such a wonderful thing. It just adds so much life and pizazz to everything!Put a letter from A-Z in my ask and I’ll tell you 1 thing I love which starts with that letter.
maedhrys replied to your post:How’s everyone doing tonight? I am feeling bored...
I helped my grandma plant daffodils today! And I made myself chicken with cider as a sort of marinade? It was really good. Also I miiiiight go to a conference.
Ahhh, that sounds like a really lovely day! And. A conference??? Tell me more!