#magiscreaming

[girlshinjist]

ban all sports

[girlshinjist]

how it feels actually caring about The Character in a land of fucking larpers

[girlshinjist]

landlords just loooove to go "pay my fee I didnt tell you about with a weeks notice"

[girlshinjist]

you think promethazine is gonna hit completely normally until you’re 25.6% or the way to a chemical sleep (+ lights are a bit too bright) and then you find yourself with fully formed thoughts flashing across the psyche like “Hannibal Lecturer Twerk Compilaution ?!” And you’re like ahhhh…. Here it comes… there it is… did you know it took me like 5 minutes to write this out. Okay goodnight

[girlshinjist]

different sort of post from me today but pisses me off that people repeatedly use people like me (ie, male victims of domestic violence, at the hands of a woman) as strawmen to make misogynistic arguments with. if you aren’t a male victim of DV then don’t bring us up when women talk about their experiences. We don’t either, unless it’s pertinent to the conversation.

I don’t like publicly speaking about my experience, at least in part because I am afraid I will be seen as a misogynist wishing to silence women. that feeling mostly comes down to the way people like to treat and handle male DV survivors as a ‘gotcha’ to women wishing to talk about the institutional failures that allow and perpetuate their abuse, rather than treating us as living human people who have also been abused. of course the experiences overlap in some ways and we should speak more earnestly about male DV survivors; but instead we get tokenised and brought into conversations our experiences aren’t relevant to.

we all fucking know some men get abused by women. we also all know the reason you bring it up every time a woman wants to talk about men who abuse her.

[girlshinjist]

ahahhh my sweet child… well when you are all grown up you’ll understand that “surviving the night 20 20 20 20 mode” means managing to get a full night of sleep drunk as fuck Christmas tree lights on windows closed and backed up nose … and papa is about to cheat his run, pass me the pill box sweetie

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i have barely any of my photos from japan and i will probably never fucking get them back. hours and hours of photography and shit tons of effort just gone

[girlshinjist]

I do really Really think that younger people need to get normal about seeing disabled people in public like I’ll die on this hill. Say what you will about the older generation but most will actually treat a visibly disabled individual like a human person. People my age will freak out if I get on a crowded bus but I once had an older gentleman randomly offer to haul my suitcase off the bus and across the station for me when I was visibly struggling with it. They have conversations with me and don’t just ask me “oh what’s wrong with you?” If we are having a conversation. It’s so hard for some of us to be in public. The least you could do is treat us like we’re not objects in the way!!!