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both answers to that question 👀

Ok TRUTHFULLY off the top of my head…. Someone who can engage in bits w me. This is a dealbreaker. Anyone who doesn’t banter / can’t banter / thinks it’s dumb makes me go so dry so fast. I hate people who can’t do bits. Someone w an X factor — a sport they excel at, a hobby they’re really good w, whatevs. They just have to be really good at something. Financial standing is irrelevant idc. Someone who’s different enough for it to be interesting, but we align w our core values. Someone who regularly does things I find cool instead of just being a homebody whose personality is that they want a gf. Someone who knows how to make ppl feel listened to. Someone who doesn’t fucking COMPETE with me but celebrates my wins. Someone who doesn’t assume the fucking worst of me at every chance they get bc that just makes me feel like you lowkey hate me. Someone who doesn’t compulsively mansplain lol. Good hygiene is a given. Someone spontaneous bc I’m regimented enough as is. Someone who humors my interests even if they find them dumb. Someone who’s not constantly fucking self centered. Someone obsessed w me like I am always on their mind even when we’re not together. Slightly toxic but someone who’s the appropriate amt of possessive (past a certain point it becomes an ick). Someone who maneuvers conversations w the goal in mind not to unnecessarily hurt ppl’s feelings, even if that means holding their tongue on certain things. Idk

#Also someone who’s like not in a rush to grow up #Like it’s sooo easy for me to forget I’m 22 #I want someone who’s silly and knows how to have fun and it’s a whirlwind to be around them #ALSO omg big one but someone who doesn’t let their anger control them #Major turnoff

It really pisses me off when you're fucking and they keep saying shit like more and faster and harder. BITCH IM TRYINGGGGG 😭😭

#I'm doing my best stop yelling at me #major turnoff #and they're not even telling you anything specific!!!! deeply unconstructive criticism

When a new guy asks to add you on snapchat & you think nooo it’s either going to be dick pics or dog faces, neither of which are attractive. Save it mate until I know you better!

#snap chat #sc #snapchat #online dating #major turnoff #dog face

When girls say they don’t read books as if it’s something to be proud of. In my head I’m thinking, “Yeah I can tell. You have the vocabulary of a third grader & you’re a cretinous feeble minded person.” So I tune out everything they say bc I don’t want to catch any of their stupidity.

#stupidity isnt sexy #major turnoff

12.17.12

I was introduced to an actor- politician by a friend whom she had been flirting with just several weeks ago. It all went good, I've seen him three times already. First, was when my friend brought me with her to watch the cinema and the second one was when we hit the gym which he's one of the members too and the third was just yesterday.

He's a nice guy, he should be but I don't expect him to be that nice like inviting me to hang out-of-town with him and my friend, constantly talking to me, things like that. He also have a reputation about going out with girls younger than him, he's about forty+ or so I guess. But honestly, I see him as my friend's boyfriend tho she says they don't talk about commitment or anything regarding that matter.

I received a text message last week from an anonymous number which I didn't even bother to reply and then he called, it was him. I'm in a network marketing business so i thought he's a potential client, I was eager to talk to him. I was surprised tho but then I entertained his friendly acts just when he started to call me "Sweet" and I said "I'm ok with PAT, stop calling me sweet, it's awkward, you're her boyfriend", he replied "Huh? You don't understand, I'll tell you everything on Sunday", he even asked me to not to tell my friend that he contacted me because he just secretly got my num from her phone. I was suspicious and curious at the same time so I didn't tell my friend, grabbed the chance to present my business proposal to him and went on with the plan.

Here comes Sunday, we went to a resort and boy, when he started talking i was really taken aback by what he just said. He said "I'll be straightforward with you. You know what Pat, I like you. I like you a lot, I wanna take care of you. I'll buy you a house, buy, not rent and I'll even give you money if you want to put up a business. I'm not a kid anymore, being cheesy and everything, I'm done with that. I just want us to try it, if it works, it works, if not at least we tried. I'll give you everything. All that you want. Name it and it's yours."

I was just staring at him the whole time he was talking at the end what I was just able to say was "What do you want me to answer?". I was like flattered and insulted at the same time. He made lifetime commitment sound like a business proposal. The oaf! He went on and on babbling about what he'll do if and when I become his girlfriend. Shit bricks. I want to laugh at his face, laugh hard and say "I'm not blinded with your flashy things Sir, how dare you go screwing around when you're already going out with my friend? You might got the looks and everything but you're almost my father too". I tried to act civilly as I can tho I must've had slapped his pathetic old handsome face.

#pissed #insulted #major turnoff