#mama's asks

[yourmamashark]

Goldfish outfit!

[insane-mother]

you're so attractive ma'am, i NEED you, i'm going FERAL

oh my my, such sweet words, and i'm sure they come from a pretty little mouth, yeah? keep being a pretty little thing, angel<3

[yourmamashark]

Are trans man/transmasc ageres and peters valid and beautiful?

Hello friend!

Yes they sure as heck are!!! Even if media in the community seems to be mostly fem regressors, masculine ones are still just as present and just as important and valued!!! Regressing is for everyone, every gender, every age, every everything!!

Stay sweet

-mama shark 🦈

[yourmamashark]

hello,, i am new to agere and i have the problem of like,, when i try to regress, i feel like im acting or faking.., like in the back of my head i still feel,, big or something? even though i reallyreallyreally wanna be little.,., :(

Hello guppy!!

I'm a flip (switch between being a little or cg!) And I struggle with getting into that headspace too. It makes sense to be tough when you're just starting out! Some people can get into it a lot easier than others, and it's still common to hear your big voice in the back of your head! Regression feels different for everyone too... it's hard for me to slip but when I do my head feels light and slightly fuzzy, like all of my thoughts have been dampened and more concentrated on one thing opposed to a million different worries all at once.

As for what to do about it... don't pressure yourself to be amazing at slipping right away!!! The more stress you put on it the harder it is, regression comes easiest when you're already relaxed slightly. Another good thing to do is to start with age dreaming, I know you were talking about how it feels like an act but that is the first step!! Pretend like you're a kid, act like one (let bigger emotions shine, waddle around or any other "childish" behaviors) and do nostalgic and familiar things. At the very least, this will normalize the actions of age regression and it's still just as beneficial for mental health! After it becomes familiar enough it might start to become actual regression. I've also attached a couple videos from Lia (angellimbed) because she makes a lot of good agere videos with wonderful advice!!! I'd recommend checking out some of her other ones too but these seemed the most helpful at first glance.

It takes time to get into, but you can never really fake it... everyone experiences a different degree of regression (being able to snap out of it in a moment vs needing help with everyday tasks like making food or bathing) and age dreaming is just as valid. Take things one step at a time and you will get there!!! I believe in you!

Don't hesitate to reach out if you need anything else, thank you for involving me in your agere journey!! I'm so proud of you!

-mama shark 🦈

[yourmamashark]

Am I valid as an age regressed if I'm age regressed to 15? (I'm physically 24 for context).

In agere communities, I mainly see things for baby regressors, toddler regressors, and child regressors. I don't see a lot of stuff for teen regressors. I'm permanently age regressed to around 15, and sometimes I feel bad that I don't regress younger like other age regressors.

🧡 🦈

Hello there!

I don't know how to start this other than going straight to the point- yes that is 100% valid! While it may be less common, teen regressors do exist! The only real "requirement" for age regression is regressing to the mindset of a younger age, and 15 is younger than 24 so it all checks out!

Lots of media in the community is centered around baby regressors, the same way most of it is feminine and soft in aesthetic too, but that doesn't mean that's the only option! Middlespace communities exist, even if they're smaller than the age regression community as a whole.. I actually have a few other teen regressors that frequent my aquarium too, at least 2 of them! My personal belief is that there are actually a lot of them out there, but since it's not as far from your bodily age then most probably don't notice the change in headspace as much! But that's just my belief..

There is no reason that regressing to 15 is invalid, and you shouldn't have to change yourself or wish you were different to have a place here in the community. You are welcomed and valued here just as you are. If it helps you and is part of your identity then that's all that matters!

Big hugs, you belong here!

-mama shark 🦈

[yourmamashark]

🎶we just got a letter, we just got a letter, we just got a letter, wonder who it's from! /lyr🎶 got an ask from a Guppy who wanted to send a photo but also stay anonymous.. so here we are!

hi mama!! wanna show you my drawing, could you please crop out my user please..?

uhm… m really shy…em… drew mama shark and then me and all of the other little sharks! (just did random stuff for each of the other sharkies)

uhmm.. it not very good cuz i super sleepy when i draw it but um… i hope you like it mama..!

wanted to draw this for you and say how much i appreciate you kindness!! everyone say thank you mama!!

-🌀☆

Hello my friend! It's so nice to hear from you! Thank you for giving me instructions to crop out your user, I want to make sure everyone here is as comfortable as possible!

Oh my goodness... I don't know where to begin!! I love it!!!!! I love how cozy all of us look (it's like a shark cuddle pile!) and I love that you included other sharkies too, we're all one big happy family! I also really love your hair and the way you do noses... and the pants are so cute! Big love!! Drawing when sleepy is hard but I think this turned out beautifully.. and there's a perfect spot on the fridge for it! This really made my day, it's not hard to be kind when there are wonderful people like you around that I get to call my friends!!!

Thank you so much for this gift, I hope the world smiles on you with kindness!

-mama shark 🦈

[yourmamashark]

Hi again! I’m the uhhh ‘idk how to play’ anon.

Could you maybe create a list of prompts please, to help with playing? My friend gave me one that was “What if they have a party coming up” (referring to my stuffed animals) and that was quite fun.

I suppose I should get some anon emojis if I’m going to keep asking things, so could I have ☁️☕️ if it’s not already taken? That’s if I remember them, lmao.

No worries if not, I know how frustrating coming up with things for a list is. I completely blank at 3 ideas most of the time.

Thanks!

Hello again! That was such an interesting ask to reply to, welcome back!

I'll certainly try my best to come up with prompts! That party one is such a good idea, easy due to realism but opens itself up to all sorts of adventures! I know pinterest has some agere prompts but most are like "how to play dragon" and require a lot more imagination!

First day of school! Dress your fuzzy friend up, pack their bag, maybe they meet some new friends!!! Who knows, maybe it's show and tell day too!

Another party, but this time it's a surprise for another fuzzy friend! That or a tea party! Or both!!!

Your stuffies are opening a cafe or shop! Extra fun with play food or playdough or even some real snacks like mini cookies!

Your stuffies have banded together to search for missing treasure! Extra fun if you have someone that can hide things for you and give you clues, but if not then you can hide something yourself and make a map and get them all dressed up and prepared for an adventure!

That signoff is all yours, it's so cozy feeling! I look forward to hearing from you more often!! I'll hopefully be able to get my anon list up soon, hopefully that can be used as a reminder!

I hope these ideas help at least a little, it is hard to come up with ideas but I didn't want to leave you waiting too long!!! I'll see if I can think of anymore too!!!

Happy playing!

-mama shark 🦈

[yourmamashark]

eh!!

(Chiikawa has gone underwater to find you!)

Woah!! Hello!!

I use my super cool shark powers to make chiikawa an air bubble

Welcome to the cove! Bubbles are mandatory for all land-visitors!!! Enjoy your visit!

-mama shark 🦈