since i'm on a roll i also think way too many people (online) also excuse women's actions way too much. if a man cheats, he's called every cruel name under the sun, rightfully so. but if a woman cheats?? suddenly it's "he must've been treating you badly!!"
putting women on a pedestal and accepting their bad behavior is JUST as bad as doing it to a man. but allowing a woman to get away with bad behavior is much more acceptable to (many) people in online spaces, especially wlw spaces. anyways i dont like men so this doesn't really matter to me all that much (/j) #amengmail