#marni replies

[shinyarchie]

The Empress, The Emperor, and an nb equivalent of the emperor/ess

The Empress:A woman you really admire

probs this lady right here i really like her a lot shes cool

The Emperor:A man you really admire

shhrrruuuggssssssss

NB equivalent of the emperor/ess

im actually not sure if i know anyone who’s NB (if i do and i forgot im really sorry) but i do know a really cute bigender babe

[shinyarchie]

Hey, just wanted to commend you on handling the current situation with maturity. I've only followed this relatively loosely, so I can't say much, but I think you're doing a good job with the cleanup. I've had to deal with emotionally manipulative (former) friends, one in particular, who would not take responsibility for their actions. It was terrible, it tore everything apart, it left no room for forgiveness. So I hope you feel better after all this!

thank you <3 

i honestly couldnt do it without supporters and my wonderful friends (and hella boyfriend). you guys have been so much help in getting me through all of this and im so greatful <3

[shinyarchie]

Hey, what all these anon's are say about you being 'abusive', they're wrong. You have BPD which makes it naturally hard to tell the truth and it makes you do impulsive things. Cat should have expected this. I looked it up a little and it can cause 'Chaotic relationships' with other people. (1/2)

Again, since Cat was so keen on 'treating you', she should have realized this. She should have realized that being friends with someone who was, nearly half her age, has BPD, and is abused at home wasn't going to be easy. She should have realized that police don't always make things better. If someone has the police called them, they can panic and cause more dilemma or complications than there already are. I hope you're okay right now though. Focus on happy things. (2/2)

a friend and i went through sources that have BPD descriptions and whatnot, we know these things happen but people are a bit too stubborn to realize it/ keep telling me im using my mental illness as a shield.

[shinyarchie]

Hey, are you doing alright? You in know way deserved what catbountry did to you and idk if this helps but if you ever need someone to talk to abt it i will be there

thank you <3 i'm doing a little better now that i slept.

[shinyarchie]

why are all these anons harassing a 15 year old. it's better to side with a mentally ill minor than a full grown adult who knew perfectly well what she was doing

im honestly getting ticked off because they think that i dont know that i did wrong and they definitely arent reading up on the recent stuff.

cat and i talked things over but she seems to not want to apologize and Jeanna informed me that even though cat wasnt being aggressive, she was still being manipulative. so,  there's that too.

[shinyarchie]

Nobody is under any obligations to forgive your dangerous abuse *OR* Cat's.

once. again. 

[shinyarchie]

admit to exactly what you did. stop hiding behind words as if you only did minor damage. admit, publicly, to what you did to at least one person. admit you're an abuser, a liar, an emotional manipulator who threatens suicide. admit that instead of apologising you went running to other people and manipulated them by not giving them the full situation and making yourself look as pitiful as possible to get support and attention to feed your ego. admit you needed help but refused it for attention.

READ. THIS.

[shinyarchie]

As a victim of abuse I'm happy people are giving Cat shit, however her calling the police was justified and I am disgusted at people who want make you into a poor little angel. Everyone defending you is defending an abuser as well. Stop making your behaviour look less evil by never apologising truthfully for exactly what you did. You manipulated several people at the least, you are a compulsive liar, you threatened suicide for abusive reasons which is harmful to people who are actually suicidal.

READ. THIS.