here are the kinks I am comfortable writing about:
Acarophilia: arousal from scratching. Scratching is often an element incorporated into rough sex.
Accidental stimulation: refers to accidental physical stimulation and situations that arouse adrenaline and cause arousal.
Actirasty: arousal by the rays of the sun. This may be enjoyed through sex outside.
Agoraphilia: fetish dedicated to sex in public places.
Altocalciphilia: a fetish for high heels, usually worn by women but not always.
Amaurophilia: kink for being unable to see, blinded or blindfolded during sex
Anal penetration: a fetish for anal penetration with foreign objects (not sex toys or penises). Inserting objects that are not designed for anal safety (porous, without a flared base, with sharp edges) can cause damage.
Anonymous sex: a kink revolving around anonymous sexual encounters where one or both parties is unaware of the other’s identity.
Aquaphilia: fetish for water and having sex in or around water. This can extend to a fetish for swimwear or posing in water even if it doesn’t involve sexual activity.
Asphyxiation: a highly dangerous kink dedicated to choking, smothering and strangulation.
Begging: kink for begging and pleading (to have sex, for release/orgasm, to perform an act, etc.).
Blindfolds: a type of bondage that blocks a person’s vision.
Bondage: restraint of a person, either by physical item (cuffs, rope, etc.) or instruction (known as mental bondage).
Breath play: choking and limiting breath. Being aroused by this is known as hypoxyphilia.
Breast/nipple worship: the act of worshipping someone’s breasts or nipples.
Caning: the act of hitting someone with a rod known as caning.
Clothed sex (endytophilia): the affinity for sex while fully or partially clothed.
Cock worship: similar to breast worship. This fetish involves verbal, physical and mental adoration of a penis – including fake ones (strap-ons).
Collaring: the act of wearing a collar to show submission, loyalty and/or devotion to a dominant.
Cuckold: where men know – and sometimes watch – their wives engaging in affairs.
Cunnilingus: this kink can be geared towards receiving oral sex as a woman or giving it either as a man or woman.
Dacryphilia: arousal caused by tears or crying.
Degradation: if you like when your man talks down to you during sex, you might be into degradation.
Double penetration: penetration of a woman’s vagina and ass via a combination of toys, penises or both.
DVP: stands for double vaginal penetration. Unlike double penetration (DP), which is simultaneous anal and vaginal penetration, DVP involves two penises or one penis and one toy in the vagina.
Exhibitionism: a common fetish for being naked and performing sexually in front of a person or persons.
Face fucking: an extreme form of blowjob where a man roughly fucks a partner’s mouth.
Face sitting: the act of a woman sitting on a man’s face while he performs oral.
Face slapping: a slap across the face brings you to attention and corrects your mistakes.
Flogging (flagellation): hitting someone with a multi-tailed tool known as a flogger.
Food play: incorporating food into sex.
Gags: a form of mouth bondage.
Group sex (Polyiterophilia): group sex and multiple party scenarios can be quite hot, but they can also be uncomfortable.
Hybristophilia: arousal by the knowledge that one’s partner has committed a heinous act or crime.
Impregnation: the fascination with making someone pregnant/conception during sex, typically from a man’s point of view.
Intercrural or interfemoral sex: thrusting between someone’s thighs without penetration.
Intoxication: taking drugs or alcohol during or before a sex scene. Intoxication can lead to poor decision-making, risky behavior and mistakes that could be dangerous or even fatal, especially when mixed with edge play.
Katoptronophilia: a fetish for having sex in front of mirrors.
Knife play: a type of edge play activity that involves actual knives or blades or the implication of.
Masochism: enjoyment of pain, punishment, and torture.
Medical play: role play involving medical scenarios, medical implements (scalpels, needles, speculums, etc) and/or medical uniforms.
Mixophilia: a kink related to watching yourself having sex. Recording sex and mirrors are two ways to enjoy this kink.
Odaxelagnia: kink for biting or being bitten.
Olfactophilia: attraction to smells, especially pungent body odors.
Omorashi: the Japanese word for a fetish related to having a full bladder and urinating on oneself.
Orgasm denial: type of play where someone’s orgasm is denied entirely, limited/ruined or delayed.
Pecattiphilia: fetish for sinning and breaking religious rules.
Pet play: any kink where someone acts like a domesticated pet.
Quirofilia: fetish for hands.
Ropework: a kink for rope as used as the specific type of bondage.
Sadism: the kink for providing pain.
Sensation play: a light kink where partners exchange sensations on the skin.
Sensory deprivation: any play that prevents someone from using one of their five senses.
Somnophilia: the fetish for sexual partners who are asleep.
Spanking: this is a fetish that many people have tried in the bedroom. A firm hand comes into play as punishment or enticement in many power exchange relationships, including domestic discipline (more on that here) relationships and schoolgirl roleplay.
Stockings: items that are often fetishized. Some people like all of them. Others prefer those that are lace-topped, hooked to a garter belt or with a visible seam down the back.
Strap-on: fetish specifically for using strap-ons. Anal, oral or vaginal penetration can be achieved.
Teasing (Tantalolagnia): To enjoy teasing as sexual gratification.
Telephonicophilia: the fetish for phone sex and dirty talking over the phone.
Triolism: a fetish for threesomes.
Uniforms: many women love a man in uniform, but not every couple incorporates this into their sex lives.
Vincilagnia: kink for being tied up and at the mercy of another person.
Voyeurism: a kink for watching someone else while naked or engaged in sexual activity.
Wax play: using wax during sex.
Zelophilia: arousal due to jealousy, either your own or someone’s jealousy over you.
taken from this site.















