That kind of attention is so vile and degrading. It reminds me of the time my friend thought it was hilarious that some dude asked him why he wasn’t dating me because “asian girls!!!” Not funny to me…
UGH I do NOT find that funny... I dont even understand people like that at all. "Asian girls" what?? are asian?? are human beings??? god im so mad about this
justalocalnative said: Omg I love you and just want to give you a big hug and yeah
assbrahamlincolon said:
If eel this so fucking much omg, I was there when we were at the McDonald’s and dad didnt even seethe girl??? James just talked about her n said they prob wouldnt get married cause she lives in tx. But I feel this so muuuuch n thx for sticking up for me.
masterofunlockingstuff said:
remember when your dad wanted to know how old i was so he could discuss hooking me up with Joe? I do. I remember that. I think he was hoping I was maybe Rachel’s age since I was hanging out with her??? But that’s not even how college works. lol
tampondigest said:
Oh man I think that your younger siblings will help insulate your youngest ones from the idiocy but it’s so scary when it’s out of your hands too. I’m seeing my cousins raise their kids and putting bad ideas in their heads and it makes me so sad
ughh thanks for replying to that guys... that makes me feel a lot better, not even kidding... like just that anyone replied to that dumb post.
i cant believe he didnt even see that little girl, and he went on about how pretty she was. What a lame-o.
and yeah I remember when dad would make remarks about like you and joe, donna. Which was so dumb, ok, and even tho it's dumb when he makes remarks about me or rachel marrying you, at least that's a little better??? bc 1) it shows he's not as homophobic as he once was and 2) rachel's at least 23 yrs old vs. a 17 yr old !!!! but even still.
and like to Amanda... I'm really relieved to hear someone say that... bc that's all I think whenever i worry about this. But like a little part of me worries that maybe I didn't... influence the middle kids enough?? but if you think that they'll do a good job too, then ahh... it helps me put more faith in them.
k so amanda tagged me in this ages ago and I've had it sitting in my drafts since so I'm gonna do it now cause SNOW DAY no work
(gonna put this under a read more bc it ended up WAY longer than I intended)
1) Do you feel comfortable being around others when you feel bad (physically, emotionally, and/or mentally)? Why/why not?
it depends on a lot of things! if i'm feeling bad physically usually no (if i'm in pain) but if I have like, a cold or the flu sure. mentally and emotionally, it depends also. if i'm upset about something involving specific people I will want to avoid those specific people for a while so I can calm down and feel better, but hanging out with someone else to take my mind off of whatever's bothering me is great. if that makes sense!
2) What’s a character you’re always compared to that you hate?
i actually don't know if this has ever happened? I'm not usually compared to fictional characters. my parents comparing me to themselves and my siblings can be pretty annoying though (even though i am the dad of the family)
3) How do you feel you’d be different if you were born another gender? (BESIDES THE OBVIOUS WEE WEE CHANGES)
i am assuming you mean like a cisdude which hmm. honestly my entire life would be so very different I think. i think my name would have been daniel? and. i just feel like everything would be so very different. i'm assuming rachel and I would still have met and become friends but would we have stayed friends? how would my parents' expectations of being a MAAANNNN have shaped me instead of being a woman? would i still have gotten the same jobs? would I have pursued different interests when I was a teenager? obviously the world would have seemed more open to me, and I would have felt like I had more potential when I was younger.
i am positive I still would have felt somewhat pressured into finding a spouse and getting married and having kids, but there would have been more focus on a career and how I was going to support this future family. I'm pretty sure I would still have absolutely no desire to date anyone but that might have been easier to deal with? People seem to be more open to the idea of a guy being a bachelor for ages than a woman. though if I didn't date five million people that could reflect badly on me in a way that it doesn't because i'm a lady.
and I wonder if I would be as aware of things as I am now? especially in regards to sexism. i would only see the benefits of it in regards to myself. would I have fallen into really bad ideas and opinions about women and religion etc etc??
basically the question is so complicated and there are so many different factors that I honestly have no idea!!!
4) You fall in love with a piece of chocolate. It is your most treasured companion. The two of you are wed in a beautiful barrier breaking human/chocolate marriage. Unfortunately, on the way back from your honeymoon, you and your chocolate love become stranded on an island without any civilization around to save you. The temperatures are sweltering hot daily and you know your piece of chocolate won’t be able to last long in this heat. Do you spare your chocolate spouse from melting to death by eating them and giving yourself some nourishment, or do you try and preserve their life as long as humanly (chocolately) possible, even if it’s to everyone’s physical detriment?
the worst/weirdest part of this question is about an hour ago I was loading my dishwasher and thinking about, is it acceptable to ask someone to die for you? to save you from death or torture etc, should you ask someone to sacrifice themselves to save you? is that yours to ask? it is a tough call to make.
if my chocolate spouse wanted to give up their life to save me, i would eat them.
5) Which elbow is your favorite?
the left one
6) Last time you took a shit? (If too blunt/gross/whatever for you, last time you gave a shit?)
this morning at like, 7am? and then I went to wash my hands and almost cut them up because at midnight i knocked a glass into the sink and broke it
(that's the third of those glasses i've broken I'M SO MAD) (at least it all went in the sink so it'll be easy clean up)
7) How often are you isolated from people? Do you wish you were more/less isolated from others?
when you originally asked this I would give a different answer than I am now because at the time I wasn't working but now I am!! basically I am sometimes isolated from people; i live alone and (ESPECIALLY when i was not working) it can get lonely sometimes? but then I forgot what working was like and now I really love having some time to myself at the end of the day. there's soooo many people at my office and sometimes my boss comes in and tries to like. help me do my job which makes sense because I've only been here a week but maybe I wanted to eat my lunch in peace???
i don't think having a roommate would be necessarily bad (especially not if it was naomi for a summer!!!) but it's not something I particularly want. i love love love having my own space, it's like heaven
8) Favorite childhood character(s)?
hahahah fuck i was talking about this on twitter. r2-d2 when i was like, 10. gollum from lotr since i was like 6yo - now. um. arnold from magic school bus? actually most everyone from magic school bus, i watched it when I was around their ages in the show and was like I COULD BE IN THEIR CLASS!!! molly from the american girl series
9) Are your shoestrings anything special?
the boots I'm wearing now have no laces! but all my sneakers do. black laces on two pairs and white on two. i figured out how to do bar lacing on the purple ones so that's special to me
10) Wanna see Metatron’s Megidolaon?
yes
11) Would you date a stop sign?
YOU KNOW I DID <3
donna asked some Qs too so i'm gonna answer them quick
1. What’s your favorite favorite?
i originally answered this with a family thing but YOU WOULDN'T GET THE REFERENCE. it's too hardcore. about vhs tapes. so hardcore omg
2. If you could bend elements, why do people think Legend of Korra is not good?
i'm a tv show bender and i'm going to bend the tv shows to my will and make them all perfect
3. Cats or kitty cats?
buy me an air filter
4. If you see a $100 laying around, send it to me.
i'll get fired bc I see this every single day ;_; but if I find a counterfeit $100 i'll try to take it for you
5. Do you define yourself by your interests, and if so what’s cool?
um yes and no. like i don't define myself by the fact that i've watched pinky and the brain through four times but i am interested in feminism and i do call myself a feminist? mostly I guess i would define myself by my characteristics I guess though?????
6. What act of kindness for a kiss? CHU~CHU~
using my brother's gamestop powerup rewards card to buy sweet games?
7. Can you recommend some cool anime to my inbox… masterofunlockingstuff
"pinky and the brain but not the tornado episode" done. sent.
8. Do you think punk is dead?
no because I found this really sweet vinyl album at the will for $.10 less than you paid for it and by telling you this i am personally keeping punk alive
9. If you had to confront a manifestation of your insecurities, what do you think it would look like?
probably like. people i know. maybe a person. like a very um... exaggerated form of a person? with only bad qualities? that would yell at me everything i've felt guilty about and I wouldn't be able to argue? idk
10. ?
!
11. Any life experiences?
once I found a broken bike mirror while digging in the dirt under the playhouse in Iowa and my friends and I thought it was buried treasure
THAT'S THE END THAT'S THE END THAT'S THE END!! if you guys wanna answer some questions yourself I wrote some here
ps ignore everything i wrote about pinky and the brain I NEVER SAID A THING
not sure what this means!!!!! but imma say music??
2. If you could bend elements, why do people think Legend of Korra is not good?
yo i dont get this either i need help. Like it's a good show??? but too much love triangle and "boy likes girl" blah blah blah But besides that, i like dis show.(arm definition U KNO WHAT IM SAYIN)
3. Cats or kitty cats?
kitty cats. only n00bs would say "cats"
4. If you see a $100 laying around, send it to me.
no(sorry donny)
5. Do you define yourself by your interests, and if so what’s cool?
naw.... i dont, but i dunno how I define myself. I'm just a person.
6. What act of kindness for a kiss? CHU~CHU~
UM help me start a girlband, alright? alright. or buy me corndogs. now you see my priorities.
7. Can you recommend some cool anime to my inbox… masterofunlockingstuff
i dont watch anime?!!!(yet)!!!! maybe someday.
8. Do you think punk is dead?
yes. our generation killed punk. no one is a tru punker except me. the only living soul left who understands.
9. If you had to confront a manifestation of your insecurities, what do you think it would look like?
oh my, probably imo... a big meany. like just a mean spirit or something, who just has no sympathy for others or something. u feel me? :\
10. ?
maybe, but who knows...?
11. Any life experiences?
the other day me and my sister had a fish funeral ;_; it was short and sad and there was a shovel and a trowel.
today we had another one... it literally took less than 5 minutes. we said a little goodbye, and ran back inside.
