Jan 5, 2024
Today I learned about a technique for low risk intimacy building called match+1
Whenever you meet someone and they say something you match their energy, plus offer some information that's one level more intimate and if they match that energy as well then with the next opportunity you can go one level deeper, but if they dont match the energy and brush you off the rejection is very insignificant, as opposed to what it could have been
As an "im not THAT autistic, oh wait fuck I am" kinda guy my ground has been shattered, i am making excel spreadsheets tracking the kind of relationship i have with everyone i talk to actually