#matureness

[dollish-kitten]

I'm officially 20 now!! 

[natedeegreat]

Setting my foot on the ground

If I ever engage into a relationship, I want to set my foot on the ground. What I mean by this is that I want to assure her that I’m not going to be easy on her and letting her know that she can’t always have it her way. I believe in equality in relationships, so playing that typical mind games isn’t going to work out very well if you try to pity me. Not “everything” will be my fault. So if you become a bitch, then I will become a douchebag. We will bump heads a lot but just know for the fact that it’s going to be great relationship because this is the part where we will build our relationship even stronger and find ways to work it out to avoid our conflicts. Try me.

[polyamo]

Sexuality has not much to do with age

We should, and now I lean myself perhaps a bit too far out of the windows, teach our children what sexual behaviorism is. (Full Disclosure: I have no Kids, but a lot of people around me who stubble with these issues) As a trusty human being you, the dear reader, thought: "I am not going to tell my 8 year old daughter what sexuality is?!?" We should drop certain beliefs that sexual maturity is tightly linked to a certain age group. It is not. 6-8 year olds also have a certain sexual life. We do not like to talk about it but it is there. It's natural. Which doesn't mean that you need in any way rush anything. The age is always a good point of reference when it comes to more tricky issues, like sexuality. But we shouldn't deny it in case it comes up early on. No one likes the talk. If that is so, try to talk the talk with your life partner first. Because if you cannot openly talk about sex with a grown-up do not even try to do it with a teenager (or a young person who is sexually mature enough to understand). They will simply not take you serious. Side-note: Children are NOT stupid. They feel your insecurity, are most likely way more creative than you, and very much eager to hear from grown-ups, even if they deny it. (Never forget, what has been heard cannot be unheard.)